Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is written by a thirty-something woman into swinging and sexual experimentation. She talks about group sex, roleplay, voyeurism, toys, and a lot more. My favorite entry was about her first experience fisting another woman, that was hot as hell! Aside from the titillating details, she spends time talking about the nuts and bolts reality. She covers jealousy, for example. That is something that few folks want to openly deal with. I found myself intrigued, turned on, and wanting to read more. Her fiction is scorching! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

This unique blog features the writing of a woman who considers herself a "sacred whore". She approaches sensuality from many angles, and seems to have a great fascination for fantasy and mythology. She writes, "It's easy to mistake the urge to have sex as sex, rather than engaging totally with the physical reality of sex. Expecting the urge to be enough is a common mistake and then people wonder why sex isn't as good as it is cracked up to be, or rather as good as everyone else says that it should be. In other words, the connection and technique aspects of sex are regarded as secondary, so most sex is a triumph of hope over experience!" An interesting read, with a lot of sacred sexuality and D/s as seasoning. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-19
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

I love this blog. The subtitle captures the exact spirit of the place, "Diary of a Forty Five Year Honeymoon." Alfie and Emma met a very long time ago, and they have remained extremely passionate and loving. Alfie has taken pictures of them through the years, and written a journal about his love affair with Emma. Some of my favorite entries are things he shares from those old journals. They usually are labeled with something like, "Fifty years ago today..." One of those old entries included this gem, "Deliciously sticky fingers after an evening inside Emma Jane’s knickers. The scent of her lingers even next day, and I can’t resist smelling my fingers until it’s completely disappeared - not until midday if I’m lucky." There are a lot of pictures of them, and the absolute devotion and passion shown here is inspiring. There are also plenty of gentle and real moments like this, "...[O]n the odd occasion that Alfie’s libido is adversely affected by fatigue, alcohol, or the aches and pains of middle age (Middle? Who am I kidding!) Emma never feels neglected or unloved. And vice versa of course. That’s another advantage of a lasting, stable relationship." I love them, and I think you'll love them too. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-31
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Linda Sue has been writing her blog since last November, which means that I'm violating my usual rule of only reviewing blogs that have been running for a year or more. However, I am breaking my rule because Linda Sue happens to write like a vet: it's coherent, engaging, and very sexy. She is a woman in her late 30s who is horny and not at all shy about sharing every explicit detail from her sexual adventures: past, present, or imagined. She also regularly contributes to another group blog called "The Fellatrices" (one guess what she writes about there). Check Linda's blog out - you will leave turned on and ready to come back for more. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-30
Cost: free Advertising Content: none
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

I reviewed this fabulous Danish couple quite awhile ago, when they had a smaller site. They now have over 2,545 hardcore pics, 4 movies, 44 photo albums, and a blog...and it is all FREE! They hide their faces (or digitally alter the photos to hide them), but everything else is graphically shared with the viewer. Content is bisexual (male/male, female/female, male/male/female, and more). You can immediately tell that these folks are having real sex with the partner that they love, and that they are intimately familiar with the specifics of each other's arousal. I got so hot reviewing the videos, that I actually got off. That is about the biggest compliment someone who looks at porn for a living can give a website. The place is easy to navigate, has minimal ad content, and invites real interaction. Hot, sexy, loving, adventurous, and carnal. I'm giving them a Vamp's pick again, and if I could I would add a bunch of blinking stars and arrows pointing to this one! Don't miss it! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, for women, gay men, Hardcore, lesbian / bi, men, Streaming Video

This blog is about Tempest, a married woman with two children. She tells her story about coming to terms with her own interest in spanking, explaining it to her husband, and eventually becoming fulfilled in her desires within her marriage. I love stories like that! Her blog includes erotic stories, advice for new folks, and discussions of her thoughts on domestic discipline and adult spanking. I think her take on dominance is particularly healthy, "Someone whom is dominant would need to have an earned respect and likability. Their expectations of what they ask are Logical and have common sense." Absolutely. A sweet blog featuring a happy explorer in kink! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Spanking

Raven is a 30-something wife, mother, and woman of deep Catholic Christian faith. She is also really kinky, and she and her husband are involved in the world of erotic discipline and BDSM. I found her writing to be absolutely charming, and it was great to see someone discussing their spirituality so openly! One of my favorite lines in this blog was, "Can someone explain why parenting doesn't come with safewords?" I am sure many of us have thought that! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is associated with Lady Jaided magazine and the full title of it is "Lady Jaided's Sex Talk for Wicked Women: Conversations with Women Who Refuse to Behave." Well, what is not to love about that? This blog discusses everything from the texture of semen to female sexual health issues and gender roles around the world. I found it fun, informative, sex-positive, and empowering. I think that folks that enjoy the tone of Jane's Guide will enjoy Susan Edwards' writing as well. Definitely stop by and give this blog a good read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-18
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Safer Sex Info, Sex Positive Goddesses, Sexuality Info

I had a lot of fun reading Karen's blog. It is a wonderful collection of insights into sexuality written by a confident woman over thirty. Here is one of my favorite quotes from her work, "Well, some ladies are a little shy about 'masturbating' themselves in front of a new guy. I might be a little harsh but I think this kind of shy is ridiculous. Ladies, you are letting them stick their penis in you but are too shy to get yourself off in the process? Shy and demure behavior is not for the bedroom, it's for when you meet his parents, or children, or boss." I could not have said it better myself. Karen has a wonderfully brazen tone throughout her writing, and I love it. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-08
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sexuality Info

This blog is sponsored by a sex toy company, and it discusses how couples can spice up their sex life. There is also discussion of news stories, film reviews, and some advice. I think that my most favorite quote from the blog was this, "...[K]eep in mind that there is no 'right' way to enjoy sex; there is only your way. If my parents wanted to sleep in separate beds and enjoy the missionary position for procreation, that was entirely their business, and no one else's! What you and your partner do, as consenting adults, is up to you." I think that is great advice. The blog is easy to navigate, and the advertising isn't obnoxious. Most of the tips seem to be written for heterosexual couples who enjoy a slight dash of kink on occasion. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-02
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sexuality Info

This is an excellent swinger lifestyle site! The best way to appreciate what they have to offer is to check out their extremely accurate "Quick Tour". Basically the site offers scene and party information and reviews, instant messaging of other members, anonymous texting (exclusive to this site), photo contests, advice columns, forums, and searchable profiles of thousands of members. You can view profiles based on distance of the person from you, picture availability, current rating, age, or keywords. There is also an added bonus of the "100% Real Seal". The "Real Seal" means that the people have been verified as actual people in the lifestyle rather than just picture collectors or fakes. The customer service and basic faq information on this site are explicit and helpful. The entire service is well put together. There is a free 7 day trial membership, and an "exclusive membership" that is $24.95/ month recurring. There are lots of options about payment (monthly, 3month, yearly, nonrecurring). This is one of the best organized sites I've seen in this genre. Excellent and lots of members! If you are a heterosexual or bi-female swinger I think this is one of the best spots on the net to hook up. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-26
Cost: 7 Day Free Trial, $24.95/mo (term disc) Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Personal Ads, Regional Guide

This is the blog of the well known erotica author Alison Tyler. Lippy Imp has three nice reviews of her work in the Erotica Anthologies section of our website, and we obviously like her a lot around here. Her work is infamously intelligent, classy, and dirty as hell...which is just the way I like it! Her blog is a nice mixture of the same elements, with a good portion of authenticity thrown in. Reading through her entries I learned a lot about her creative process, as well as some of the emotional stuff that can come along with being in this line of work. I empathized deeply as I read about some of the crummy feelings that can come up when you are treated like a sideshow freak by people because you work in the adult industry. You can love your work a lot, but it still stings when people treat you like the bearded lady. I'm right there with ya sister! Luckily, the fun times make up for it. Alison currently has a "panty parade" going on over at the website right now, so people are sending her pictures of themselves in their underpants. It is really cute. I noticed Violet Blue made a contribution, so you shouldn't miss that. An informative, creative, sexy, and authentic blog by a really talented young woman. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-26
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

I'm in love! As far as I'm concerned, this should be the next viral link that everyone sends to their friends. It is exactly what it claims to be, a blog in which the artist draws naked women onto post-it notes with a pen. That could be simply a gimmick on some sites, but this guy is actually really talented! I especially love the extremely stylized images with heavy dark lines. The writing is often a bit dark, isolated, and lonely. There is a real honesty of feeling here. That aching is poignant when read along with such erotic and beautiful images being created out of the mundane. As the writer states, "...I skip randomly through the sunshine of awkwardness and insecurity, hoping to find a path home." Don't we all? Go check this out, he is very talented. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-26
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: art / digital art, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Rae is a sweet, saucy, talented, and charming artist! That said, I think that I may be the only one here that could have reviewed her site. Why? I have been on extended leave, and I had no idea who was responsible for the 10th Anniversary redesign of Jane's Guide. So, it was with an unbiased eye that I began reading Rae's blog and learning about the pansexual kinky 20something. She writes in a tone that is both intelligent and blatantly sexual, and seems to strive to show how feminism and pornography are both undergoing a revolution. She is also funny as hell! Imagine my shock when I realized that in addition to this, she also was responsible for our cool redesign. At this website you can check out her blog, and you can also see her web design portfolio. Do I have to mention that it is all well designed and provides all the pertinent information? Go check out the woman behind our "Stick Jane" art! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-18
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Free
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, webdesign, Webmaster Resources

This blog on human sexuality has some really neat articles with titles like "Sex Tips For 'Married Old Guys' - How to Keep Your Sex Life Hot, Even Without Erections" and "Help! Does Liking Gay Porn Make Me Gay?!" The owner/operator is a woman named Rose Rivera, who earned a Masters degree in Family and Sexuality Studies. The writing is fresh, intelligent, and easy to read. She offers up reviews, advice, erotica, and more. There are also quite a few pictures and links to affiliate sites. Although there were a lot of links that led elsewhere, I didn't find that it interfered with my reading. It was just a bit confusing finding my way around at first. My tip? Use the "What Are You Into?" menu to quickly navigate to the content you want. I think that many of our readers will appreciate the tone of this site. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sexuality Info

This blog is written by Marcello, a thirty-something pansexual male from New York. Can I just say that I adore this guy? He writes about his sexuality, which includes a submissive nature. He talks openly and honestly about his foot fetish, love of anal play, and exploration of his own fluid sexuality. One of the most wonderful things about this blog, however, is his discussion of non-sexual male intimacy and vulnerability. Here is one of my favorite things that he wrote, "My point being - as men we have a right to make sure our friends are Ok - mentally, physically and sexually...We need to get to the point in our male-male friendships where sensitivity and openness between us is not perceived as weird, but healthy." That is fabulous! All this sound and sensitive commentary, and nice naked pictures to boot. What is there to complain about? Great blog! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, men

Annette is a porn actress from Germany and she's been writing this blog for almost a year now. She updates a few times a week with graphic photos, video clips, and stories from her life and her work in the porn industry. As blogs by porn stars go, this is a pretty good one; her posts are actually interesting, they don't just pimp her movies/pay-site, and she really does post hot hardcore pix and vids where you can really see her in action. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-05-28
Cost: free Advertising Content: n/a
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

My first self assigned task upon seeing the title of the blog was to determine if, indeed, this girl is a bad influence. After long and intensive study I determined that, in fact, she seems to be rather sweet and... dare I say... lascivious! Badinfluencegirl's blog is a mix of erotica, sex toy reviews, and frank discussion about sex and relationships. The only hiccup on an otherwise amazing site was the lack of capitalization in sentences.

Date Reviewed: 2008-05-19
Cost: free Advertising Content: medium
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Calico is a fetish model and professional dominatrix who has been chronicling her thoughts on sex and her life in the fetish industry on this blog for a little over a year. Calico writes a great blog, her posts meet all my requirements: her writing is engaging, interesting, fun - heck, she's even grammatically correct. And did I mention that you can view her gorgeous fetish photo portfolio from her site? Calico is a rare gem of a sex blogger - if you're into her particular brand of kink (or are curious about it), you're going to want to bookmark her site. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-05-12
Advertising Content: none
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Work Info

One of my favorite things about reading blogs is that you can peek into the lives of people you'd never otherwise get to know. As wonderful as my little Midwestern town is, it's not the greatest place to make friends with a "kinky queer butch top," which happens to be Sinclair Sexsmith's self-description. Sinclair's writings focus on sex, gender, dating, and the politics of these topics. The posts are open-minded, inclusive and informative, which is exactly what I like when I'm learning about someone whose life experiences are so different from my own. Did I mention the images Mr. Sexsmith posts? They are mighty enticing. There's an erotica contest on at the moment; check it out and vote for your favorite sexy tale. And Sinclair? If you're ever in my town, stop by for a cup of coffee. I'd like to meet you. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2008-04-30
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex