Blogs / Journals - Sex

"My body is wired for more," says adult performer and BDSM model Miss Maggie Mayhem, and everything she writes about on her blog bears out that statement. She posts frequent updates detailing her work in the business, including shoots for sites such as Kink.com and HedonisticDiscipline.com. Her posts are illustrated with lots of samples from her work; these are super-hot. Miss Maggie also speaks out for sex worker rights, HIV testing and prevention, and sex-positive feminism. I love learning more about the folks I've seen naked and coming in porn. Keep up the writing, Miss Maggie Mayhem, and we'll keep reading. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2009-06-30
Cost: free Advertising Content: moderate
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Female Bondage, Sex Work Info

This blog is a recent addition to the net. I know very little about her but she intrigues me. She has been married for over 20 years and has a couple of kids. She works [or has worked] as a domestic abuse counselor. She - as have I - helps those who have been broken by harmful sexual encounters. She believes - as do I: "The solution to bad art is not censorship, its better art. Well for me, the solution to bad sex and the pain it brings is not abstinence, it is better sex." In her anonymous journal here she both recounts the sex that she seeks with her husband but also the roughcut encounters she fantasizes about with others. - Peter

Date Reviewed: 2009-06-26
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Nil
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Do you like podcasts, audioerotica, and sensual bisexual women? Then, you'll love this blog! It is a combination blog/podcast that updates about three times a month. The owner is a woman named "Silkenvoice", and she shares small sections of her written erotica and audio records for free! (Her larger and more complete audio recordings are sold at another location.) When I visited, there were at least 27 sexy and explicit podcasts for free download. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2009-06-10
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Internet Radio Podcasts, mainstream erotica

This blog is a recent edition from Europe. Yola's blog is primarily black and white photos, with minimal scene-setting text. The pix actually have occasional colored highlights in a black and white image - for example, the green color of a jewel in an otherwise stark image. The scenes could be anywhere, but are said to be in various European settings. They are quite well done - staged, posed, lit, and photographed - and do include hardcore insertion images. Her intent appears to present high class visual vignettes of a beautiful international call girl. She is masked and suggests that you imagine a face for her. Well done so far and here's hoping she can continue to update in similar quality. = Peter

Date Reviewed: 2009-06-08
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Link buttons on each page
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Hardcore

It is pretty rare that I contact a site and ask to do a review, but this one just charmed the pants off of me! The site is fairly new, but the content is unique and real. In the words of the site owner, "Modern Hooker is a sex worker, sex worker rights activist, blogger, writer, cheap thrill seeker, and random comic." You'll find the web comic in the "smirk" section, and if you've ever worked in the sex industry I think it will give you some pretty big laughs. The real meat of the site is found in the new blog section, however. Modern Hooker has a very charismatic and whimsical style, but she also has a lot of powerful and insightful things to say. I was particularly interested in some of her observations regarding the recent influx of young women into the prostitution industry. Witty, lovable, sexy, and one of a kind. I think you'll love this woman! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2009-06-03
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Humor / Satire / Silly, Sex Work Info

This particular blog hasn't been up and running for that long (since December 2008), but the content that is available is of good quality, and is quite interesting. The author,"LipstickLez," alternates with personal stories, weekly eye candy of queer celebs, and interesting news regarding the queer and lesbian communities. Overall, the posts are pretty short (sometimes too short!), making me wish she wrote a little more on each subject, although some of her definiton posts are wonderfully detailed. As far as function, I was a little frustrated with the choice to only have one post per page - I prefer to have five or ten to a page, so that I can scroll through and read. However, it's a very clean looking site, which I appreciate. She's got a quick and dirty "about" page, ways to contact her, and only one banner, with no advertisements, making her site fairly easy to navigate. I hadn't come across this particular lipstick lesbian before, and I'm excited to follow her as she continues her journey on this blog.

Date Reviewed: 2009-05-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Banners
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is a really interesting mix of things. The writer is a young woman who fearlessly discusses some really touchy subjects (including polycystic ovarian syndrome, infertility, miscarriage, and marriage issues). She also puts together helpful little video reviews of sex toys for several online retailers. The reviews allow you to see the toy in action (although not in use), which helps to point out issues with noise and such in a much more concrete way. I love that! In addition to all this, the writer is also a former web Domme. She has a small section of the site that she devotes to describing that experience, and I find it fascinating. It is an authentic and unusual mixture of subject matter, and I find that to be refreshing. None of us are one dimensional beings! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2009-05-29
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Work Info, Sexuality Info

Amber has been running her site, Scarlet's Letter (not to be confused with the much longer-running, but no longer updated, webzine "ScarletLetters.com"), since December 2007. She averages around one update a week. The updates are usually fairly short; she generally either talks about a company that she likes or reviews a sex toy. As sex blogs go this one is relatively hum-drum; there are too many other sites out there that either post more comprehensive reviews or that flesh out their content with writing that isn't just about companies and toys. Don't get me wrong, it's a cute site and Amber seems nice, but there just isn't enough there to really make this site shine. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2009-05-06
Cost: free Advertising Content: high
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

If you've got a thing for vampires' frightening charms, you've got to check out The Dark Angel: Erotica in a Jugular Vein. Devalia Quintessa is a Second Life player who records her sexy sanguine adventures in vivid detail. Get past the obligatory Blogger warning that it's an adult blog and inside you'll find very long accounts of Quintessa's midnight comings and goings. Right now there are only a handful of entries but each is as extensive as a month's worth of entries on many other sex blogs. Time will tell if this newish blog can keep up the pace of dark fantasies. Enjoy, but keep your neck covered. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2009-04-01
Cost: free Advertising Content: nil
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

I've seen a few sex blogs using this layout on Wordpress and I have to say that I'm not really a fan - it kinda makes the posts seem to bleed together a little bit and makes commenting a pain, since you have to scroll back up the top to click the comment button after you've read to the bottom on an entry. Layout aside, The Naked Truth is Z's third blogging effort and it seems like she's getting the hang of it - updating at least around once a week. I'm not sure where she is keeping the rest of her archives, but the current site only goes back as far as Jan 2009. Z blogs about all aspects of her life, from her thoughts on sex toy design, to recounting snippets of her sex life, thoughts on being the other woman, or just talking about how much she hates having to wake up early. An interesting read. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2009-04-01
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog, like many up and coming (pun totally intended) sex blogs, is written by a college student. And like most college students, Wilhemina is in the midst of exploring her sexuality and identities. Some posts are a little rambly, as blogs tend to be, speaking to her life, her friends (with and without benefits). Others are tidbits of intriguing erotica. Some are full of questions, others are full of answers. While there is not much discussion on this blog about sexuality as a whole, many of the posts are interesting, and I enjoyed getting to know Wilhelmina and experience a piece of her journey. - EssinEm

Date Reviewed: 2009-03-14
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low (Banners)
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

In an age where it seems as though "sex bloggers" have become a dime a dozen, Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed is a breath of fresh, intellectual, well-thought out air. MayMay is the writer of this site, and while it hasn't been updated as much recently, it is chock full of interesting news about a variety of events/news stories in the field of sexuality, thoughts and pondering about his own sexuality, and questions that have been asked to the internet community at large. Actually, one of my favorite things about this site is the discussion that occurs with all of MayMay's readers and commenters, turning the site into a forum of sorts at times. I can only hope MayMay gets back into the swing of updating the site, as I really enjoyed reading it. - EssinEm

Date Reviewed: 2009-02-25
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

MyBestFriendPorn.com features video clips and pictures commented upon by a male and female blogger. Their posts are snarky, irreverent and a whole lot of fun. As you'd expect, most if not all of the sexy material links back to affiliate sites; join one of them and the bloggers will receive a commission. There's nothing at all wrong with this, and in fact it's done much more tastefully on this site than on many others. Read along for some good clean -- and not so clean -- fun. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2009-01-20
Cost: free Advertising Content: very high
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Our Rockstar Life is a personal sex blog run by Betty Rocket (and no, that's not her real name. But yes, she is real. Or so says her "About Me" page). This blog has been around just over a year, and seems to consist about 50% of toy reviews, 25% of HNT (and other picture) posts, and the last bit is made up of notes about her life, stories of sex with her and her partner(s) (she is part of the swinger lifestyle), and other little tidbits. I wish there'd been a bit more under the about me section, and maybe a blogroll page, and a "favorite posts" page, so I could get to know her a bit more. Also, there wasn't a list of categories, making the site a little difficult to navigate. However, the reviews were good and well thought out, and the pictures sexy and fun. Definitely worth checking out. - EssinEm

Date Reviewed: 2009-01-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low (Banners)
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Audacia Ray is a jill of all trades; writer, editor, blogger, professor, educator, and much much more. She has many sites (including www.WakingVixen.com, her personal blog), but LiveGirlReview has one purpose, true and pure. It exists for reviews. Reviews of books, toys, porn, films, art, blogs and many more items that relate to sexuality. The really cool thing about this site is that the majority of reviews (with a few exceptions) are done via video reviews. This site has been around for almost a year, and the format of video reviews, although popular now, was very avant garde when the site began. Dacia is intelligent, snarky, and all of her reviews, good or bad, are 100% honest. The site, while not updated recently, has a cornucopia of reviews of almost every type of sexuality product out there, and the video format is great, and easy to watch. The reviews are now done in "marathon episodes" but the old single item reviews are available as well. Great site, great information, great format. - EssinEm

Date Reviewed: 2009-01-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low (Banners)
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex, Other Web Review sites

Onania.Org/asm. What a clever URL! I love it! The writer of the site, Richard Lovel, lives with a constant and compulsive need to masturbate. "Doesn't everyone?" you might think, but after reading this site you'll feel like a jack-off lightweight. Here you can read Richard's own experiences along with his commentary on other masturbators' tales. If that's not enough, you can follow a link to his personal webcam, hosted on another site, and join in the wanking fun. Richard Lovel is very clear on one thing: He's not going to solve your masturbation issues. Don't look to him for advice. Encouragement, maybe. But I don't think he'd ever tell you to stop. --aag

Date Reviewed: 2008-12-08
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

The Pleasurist doesn't try to hide it; she works for the sex-positive sex toy store The Pleasure Chest. However, this doesn't mean that all of her blog is about items from the store. In fact, it doesn't even mean that it is all about sex toys. I'm actually pleasantly surprised at the huge variety of sexuality based news that she covers on her blog, from the political to the amusing (pumpkin porn, REALLY?), the sad to the heartening, and yes, even a few stories about sex toys. Each post is interesting to read, and yet not too long where you feel like you're getting bogged down with information, and I really enjoy her commentary on most of the news items. Basically, the Pleasurist is a witty, intelligent and amusing writer with a gift for finding interesting news stories in the world of sexuality. - EssinEm

Date Reviewed: 2008-11-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

Lina is a blogger in England who writes about sex, society, feminist, queer rights, politics, sex worker writes, fashion and more. With interesting links to other posts (both in her link round ups and sprinkled amongst her own posts), she seems to be well read, and has some very interesting responses to what other people have to say. I really enjoyed most of her writing (although it was occasionally a bit hard to follow), especially on issues such as rape culture, presenting as femme/feminine, male and female gaze, and well...I just like a lot of her writing. Plus, she use the term sparkle pony, which earns 157 bonus points. She also links to some very cool blogs, even though her side bar is a bit cluttered. All in all, I loved this blog, and will be checking it out on a regular basis in the future! - EssinEm

Date Reviewed: 2008-11-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is written by a switchy married woman who is actively and creatively exploring her sexuality. These explorations include kink, and she is not shy about sharing both her actual experiences and her fantasies. There are quite a few images throughout the blog, some of which show things like rope bondage and leather clothing. Her writing is frank and honest, "When you are in love with another man, you share some of your fantasies, keeping others secret, and you never, ever call out the other man's name during sex." This quote gets even better when you read the post that this is a part of, since she decided to break the rules and talk about the other partner while in bed with her husband. That brings me to another great thing about this blog, it links to her husband's writing! So, it is possible to get to know the couple separately through their unique perspectives. In addition to this, you'll find a lot of sex toy and product reviews in this blog. I really thought that was great! A helpful, entertaining, and thought provoking read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-11-06
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Take a moment and imagine a leather Facebook or Myspace, and then imagine it being run by and for kinky folks. That is exactly what Fetlife is! It is the coolest new community site out there for pervs, and it is absolutely 100% free. I had been hearing the buzz about this new spot on the web from a few of my lifestyle friends, and I finally decided to go set up an account and take a look myself. Many years ago I had been on other sites that promised community and allowed free communication, but since those sites have sold to other companies their soul has left the building and communication costs money. It is also communication that is no longer under the nurturing ownership of perverts with a personal interest in our tribe. I'd lost interest, and so had most of my friends. I was hoping that this site could be some of what I was missing on the old ones. Wow, I wasn't disappointed! I immediately ran into some of my old friends, and then ran off to recruit new ones. It is easy to sign up. Once you have, then you set up a profile. You can add pics to it, and you'll never run into that "you have to have such and such membership" to view pics or show them to others. There are social groups here with ongoing forum conversations, so you can sign up for topics that interest you (or create your own groups). There is a mail system that acts like a personal bulletin board for private conversations, so you don't lose track of what has been said to anyone. You can post writing, see what your friends are doing, and a lot more. A lot of talented pervs are posting writing and engaging in conversation here. I've met a lot of new friends. There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way. You can write to the folks that run the site, and they will actually write you back. I've been in love with this place and raving about it for the last several weeks. This is one of the few sites that didn't ask for review. I sought out the owner and asked him if I could post one. It is that good. I feel like I'm giving you guys an early Christmas gift. Go check it out! This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will stay huge as long as they keep the spirit that they have now. - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-11-05
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
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