Blogs / Journals - Couples

This blog is written by Simon and Ava, a couple that enjoys writing explicit stories about their sex life and fantasies. Most of the entries seem to be written by Ava, and they are definitely graphic. An example of her writing would be, "Giving my mouth a rest for a moment he stays perched above my face, lowering his balls into my mouth again as he works his cock. I feel his balls tighten in my mouth before he lifts his hips and moves just enough to shoot his cum across my mouth and neck." If you like erotica based in reality, you'll enjoy these folks! They have a lot of vanilla adventures, but there is plenty of kink stuff to keep you on your toes. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-09-24
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

I love this blog. The subtitle captures the exact spirit of the place, "Diary of a Forty Five Year Honeymoon." Alfie and Emma met a very long time ago, and they have remained extremely passionate and loving. Alfie has taken pictures of them through the years, and written a journal about his love affair with Emma. Some of my favorite entries are things he shares from those old journals. They usually are labeled with something like, "Fifty years ago today..." One of those old entries included this gem, "Deliciously sticky fingers after an evening inside Emma Jane’s knickers. The scent of her lingers even next day, and I can’t resist smelling my fingers until it’s completely disappeared - not until midday if I’m lucky." There are a lot of pictures of them, and the absolute devotion and passion shown here is inspiring. There are also plenty of gentle and real moments like this, "...[O]n the odd occasion that Alfie’s libido is adversely affected by fatigue, alcohol, or the aches and pains of middle age (Middle? Who am I kidding!) Emma never feels neglected or unloved. And vice versa of course. That’s another advantage of a lasting, stable relationship." I love them, and I think you'll love them too. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-31
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is an excellent swinger lifestyle site! The best way to appreciate what they have to offer is to check out their extremely accurate "Quick Tour". Basically the site offers scene and party information and reviews, instant messaging of other members, anonymous texting (exclusive to this site), photo contests, advice columns, forums, and searchable profiles of thousands of members. You can view profiles based on distance of the person from you, picture availability, current rating, age, or keywords. There is also an added bonus of the "100% Real Seal". The "Real Seal" means that the people have been verified as actual people in the lifestyle rather than just picture collectors or fakes. The customer service and basic faq information on this site are explicit and helpful. The entire service is well put together. There is a free 7 day trial membership, and an "exclusive membership" that is $24.95/ month recurring. There are lots of options about payment (monthly, 3month, yearly, nonrecurring). This is one of the best organized sites I've seen in this genre. Excellent and lots of members! If you are a heterosexual or bi-female swinger I think this is one of the best spots on the net to hook up. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-26
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Personal Ads, Regional Guide

Married Exploits is a blog about *gasp* the exploits of a married couple, Penelope and Odysseus, as they explore their sexuality together. If you don't like blogs about happily married couples, stay away from this one because these two are just adorable and sound like they have a lot of fun together. Each member of the couple posts separately, and while they sometimes both have input on some posts, it's really interesting when one will comment on what the other has said in a previous post. These two blog about a lot of different things: they talk about their sex life, they talk about couples they want to/do get it on with, and they also post some hot photos of Penelope. On the side-bar is a sort of cast listing, explaining who the different couples they talk about are and how they met them. It's a cute touch and helped me keep things straight as I explored the archives. I liked this blog; I thought it was cute, I think the couple is hot, and I like how they are exploring the idea of the swingers lifestyle together. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-05-14
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

Dee's blog, SexyWhispers, seems to have a bit of a split personality: some of the posts are topped with a blue image, representing "blue moon whispers" and some are topped with a red image for "red city whispers." I suspect it has something to do with the site's affiliation with the company "Whispers Media" (an audio erotica distributor), but as near as I can tell, on the blog at least, red = posts about business and blue = posts about sexy fun. In any case, Dee says she created SexyWhispers as a way to help encourage women to feel more comfortable getting in touch with their own sexuality. She posts on a variety of topics, but most commonly she writes about her thoughts on women and sex - pulling examples from her own love life and her relationships with her daughter and other female friends. Dee's writing style is lighthearted and can get pretty deep - sometimes she makes me think of "chicken soup for the sexy soul." I've already added SexyWhispers to my bookmarks, you might want to as well. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-04-27
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Our host at SSS is a cross-dressing sissy and he (and his wife) loves it. His blog is a sort of discussion and play-by-play of their exploration into the world sissification; but he also writes about whatever strikes his fancy, which leads to some very interesting discussion. Additionally, SSS and his wife are avid exhibitionists and he regularly posts pictures of them in various states of dress and undress. Even (or especially) if you think the sissification of men is odd, this site is worth checking out. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-02-16
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

I don't think the entire blog title fit into our Page Title block. It's "We Are the People Your Parents Warned You About". With entries dating to mid 2005, this blog is the product of a young swinger couple in the Maryland area. For a motto, they quote Dossie Easton and Catherine Lizst: "A slut shares his sexuality the way a philanthropist shares her money — because they have a lot to share, because it makes them happy to share it, because sharing makes the world a better place." The content is all loosely sexually oriented, in many different ways. They'll link to cute sexy pictures. They will write their own sexy essays or vignettes. They proselytize about swinging and their lifestyle choices. Like minded individuals will no doubt enjoy reading here. - Peter

Date Reviewed: 2007-08-29
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

Ken and Jen have been blogging their real and fictional swinging adventures since February 2006. They put up lovely HNT (Half-Nekkid Thursday) picture, lately featuring a Mystery Guest who has absolutely luscious breasts (Mystery Guest, I want to lick them. Call me!). The Dirty Couple's sexual fantasies are long, very detailed, and completely wank-worthy. Fridays are reserved for pictures of nekkid folks, usually with beer. What fun! - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-21
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

I really like this wordpress blog. It is about Mr. and Mrs. Manic Depressive, a couple that has been married for over twenty years. They manage to make sex a heck of a lot of fun together, and are great examples of how to keep the home fires burning! They have been online with this blog since around 2005, and the writing style here is very casual and chatty. The sex consists of not only what they do, but what they fantasize about while they do it. I love to hear about that mental aspect of sexuality that is a bit more rare to hear about, especially within the context of long term and loving relationships. If you like images, you'll enjoy their "Foto Phriday". They don't seem to keep the images up for long, but they are rather tenacious about posting them. A very neat blog with a great attitude! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-18
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

This is a unique addition to the collection of blogs we've reviewed here on Janesguide! This is the journal of a couple in a male dominant/female submissive relationship that practice a form of "hypnosis". HypnoMaster D and Hypnoslave e (along with various parts of their consciousness that they give different names or designations) share ideas, techniques, and experiences in this form of power exchange. Hypnomaster claims to have removed memories of events, added false memories, and created sensory illusions for his partner. That said, he is clear that "...[T]he hypnotism we practice is not a process of taking control of a sub's mind. Instead you're simply empowering your sub to be aware of her subconscious and let that part communicate with you more directly." They have "do it yourself" guides, interviews with the subconscious, and theories about healthy individuals that would identify their mind as a chorus of voices rather than singular. There are some caveats given, but not much in the way of safety or ethical issues is explored. That worries me a bit, so I'd recommend looking up some ethical guidelines for this sort of thing if you are interested. Be aware that even in areas of mental discipline like meditation there are well documented dangers, so do be careful. That said, this sounds quite in line with the grand ol' tradition of BDSM mindfuck to me. A fun and interesting conversation with an intriguing couple! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-05-30
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S

Abel and his wife Haron have co-authored The Spanking Writers Blog since...wow, since a year ago yesterday! Happy bloggerversary, Abel and Haron! This feisty British couple have been spankos since way back; they link to stories they wrote well before this site came to be. In The Spanking Writers Blog, the duo talk about their own spanking adventures; they also give a humorous spin on current events which mention corporal punishment. From time to time they descend into fantasy spankings they'd like to give or witness. And they show pictures from their toy-chests. Fun! This blog is fun to read even if you are not a spanking devotee. - alwaysarousedgirl

Date Reviewed: 2007-03-23
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Spanking

The Pagan and The Pervert are a newly-married couple who both blog under their real names elsewhere, but decided in September 2006 to write an anonymous sex-blog. This is a relatively new blog, with well under 100 posts total, but it shows some promise. They answer memes, they participate in Half-Nekkid Thursday, they have fun with Cock-Blogging Wednesday. They adore outdoor sex and pleasing one another. You'll find loads of playful, x-rated pictures of this fun couple on the site. The Pervert reports that lately they have been struggling with infertility, which has put a damper on their ability to write a sexy, lighthearted blog. All too often, real-life intrudes on sex-blogger life and the blog falls by the wayside. Let's hope this couple can keep their blog going as they go through the first year of their marriage. An original read; stop by and see for yourself! --alwaysarousedgirl

Date Reviewed: 2007-02-21
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is a sweet journal written by Rex and Roxy (a thirty-something married couple). It is pretty new, but I like the concept here. The idea behind this cooperatively written blog is that every time that they have sex they will both write about it independently (before comparing notes with the other). In that way, they can see how they both processed the same event. I like this idea a lot. Rex and Roxy are parents, so you also get to see how they deal with their sexuality in a home where there is a Rugrat to consider. A very nice read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-29
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

This is an extremely explicit blog by Orchid and Aragorn. They share stories, fantasies, and pictures. They manage to mingle a large bit of romanticism with an even larger bit of naughty. In addition to talking about their lovemaking, they also examine other erotic blogs and even interview folks at times. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-29
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is what online erotic journaling is all about! I was so enthralled by this one that I had to read every single word, and take a short break just to deal with the breathlessness. An absolutely delicious personal account of the cyber romance between a college professor "P", and a young college student (located quite a long distance away). The young woman goes by "O", as "O" always comes before "P". I thought that was quite amusing! It is indicative of the wit you'll find here. O is leaning toward submission, and she describes this feeling at one point by saying, "I want him to be able to inhabit me, to see through my eyes, feel what I feel. To see himself." Isn't that just beautiful? She quotes his feelings about this journey, "Are you my goddess or my slave, O? How I want you to be both ..." The writing here is hot, graphic, intelligent, romantic, and introspective. I can't recommend this one highly enough. A complete delight! ............................Update from Jane (Vamp originally reviewed): This blog has changed from the initial review - the original relationship it chronicled has ended, and O has gone on to a new space. Her writing has changed, but is still highly erotically charged, much more so than the average "sex blog" that I come across. The writing I was reading about her current affair with a married man definitely conveys the myriad emotions of such a situation. Still recommended.

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-16
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is a really hot couple blog! It was initially started by "Dirty Debbie" as a place to vent her active imagination through erotic stories and discussion, but now her partner and soulmate CJ also posts to it at times. They have a really interesting story as a couple that involves a large span of time, break ups, and make ups. Debbie is a girl after my own heart who studied psychology and biology in college (since she wanted to be a Sex Therapist). She spent a lot of her life studying, raising a daughter, and finding her way. Now she is in a place where she feels comfy with herself and her relationship, and she is raising a bit of playful hell (and has the x-rated pictures to prove it). A "dirty" blog with a sweet chewy center. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-01
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is a neat little site. It gives you reviews on websites, books, toys and movies, all from a couple’s perspective. Your webmasters are Cecilia and Alain. They don’t profess to be experts of any type but love to experiment and share their honest opinions with the world. The site has been up and running since February of 2006 so there are a good number of reviews to check out. The reviews themselves are fairly extensive and quite often will have his and her point of views. I would like to see the site continue to grow and become an even better resource for couples looking for great sex sites, toys and movies. This is definitely a good starting point if you want to surf with your partner.

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Minimal
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Stiletto Diaries the Blog of Stiletto Girl and chronicles the progress of her relationship with her husband from the realm of monogamous to polyamorous. The site was initially created in November of 2005 so there’s almost a years worth of writing and information to browse through. It’s an interesting read. - Koi

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-09
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is written by a married Female Dominant/ male submissive couple who have strong opinions about the ultimate superiority of women-led relationships. Here is an excerpt of their writing, "Wives have historically done this behind the scenes, but they are more openly embracing their feminine power through formal agreements in which a husband's role is to obey and submit to loving female authority. Evidence abounds that this is actually as nature intended. Those of us practicing a wife-led marriage know it provides a win/win that is far superior to a traditional relationship." Judging from the comments on their site, I'd say that they take a lot of heat for that assertion. Interestingly enough, they seem to take more heat than most of the sites I go to that practice Male-led relationships. Makes ya think, eh? - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Female Domination

This is one of the most charming blogs on dominance and submission that I've ever run across. It is written by a monogamous husband/wife team in a long term marriage. They are deeply in love with each other and exploring "Mastery and Surrender". Tea (the wife) and Naranja (the husband) are extremely articulate folks with more than a dash of Eastern style philosophy at the root of some of their interaction. An example of this is when Tea asks the question, "If you're submissive, how would you play at indirectly naming the submissive in you which cannot be named?" This sort of thought will be very familiar to you Taoists out there. Being partnered to one myself, it was very interesting to spy on another couple and see how that philosophy sometimes touches their own sexual expression. I found all of the writing here to be extremely compelling, erotic, and sometimes downright magickal. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-12
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Spanking