Blogs / Journals - Couples

This is a unique addition to the collection of blogs we've reviewed here on Janesguide! This is the journal of a couple in a male dominant/female submissive relationship that practice a form of "hypnosis". HypnoMaster D and Hypnoslave e (along with various parts of their consciousness that they give different names or designations) share ideas, techniques, and experiences in this form of power exchange. Hypnomaster claims to have removed memories of events, added false memories, and created sensory illusions for his partner. That said, he is clear that "...[T]he hypnotism we practice is not a process of taking control of a sub's mind. Instead you're simply empowering your sub to be aware of her subconscious and let that part communicate with you more directly." They have "do it yourself" guides, interviews with the subconscious, and theories about healthy individuals that would identify their mind as a chorus of voices rather than singular. There are some caveats given, but not much in the way of safety or ethical issues is explored. That worries me a bit, so I'd recommend looking up some ethical guidelines for this sort of thing if you are interested. Be aware that even in areas of mental discipline like meditation there are well documented dangers, so do be careful. That said, this sounds quite in line with the grand ol' tradition of BDSM mindfuck to me. A fun and interesting conversation with an intriguing couple! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-05-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S

Abel and his wife Haron have co-authored The Spanking Writers Blog since...wow, since a year ago yesterday! Happy bloggerversary, Abel and Haron! This feisty British couple have been spankos since way back; they link to stories they wrote well before this site came to be. In The Spanking Writers Blog, the duo talk about their own spanking adventures; they also give a humorous spin on current events which mention corporal punishment. From time to time they descend into fantasy spankings they'd like to give or witness. And they show pictures from their toy-chests. Fun! This blog is fun to read even if you are not a spanking devotee. - alwaysarousedgirl

Date Reviewed: 2007-03-23
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Spanking

The Pagan and The Pervert are a newly-married couple who both blog under their real names elsewhere, but decided in September 2006 to write an anonymous sex-blog. This is a relatively new blog, with well under 100 posts total, but it shows some promise. They answer memes, they participate in Half-Nekkid Thursday, they have fun with Cock-Blogging Wednesday. They adore outdoor sex and pleasing one another. You'll find loads of playful, x-rated pictures of this fun couple on the site. The Pervert reports that lately they have been struggling with infertility, which has put a damper on their ability to write a sexy, lighthearted blog. All too often, real-life intrudes on sex-blogger life and the blog falls by the wayside. Let's hope this couple can keep their blog going as they go through the first year of their marriage. An original read; stop by and see for yourself! --alwaysarousedgirl

Date Reviewed: 2007-02-21
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is a sweet journal written by Rex and Roxy (a thirty-something married couple). It is pretty new, but I like the concept here. The idea behind this cooperatively written blog is that every time that they have sex they will both write about it independently (before comparing notes with the other). In that way, they can see how they both processed the same event. I like this idea a lot. Rex and Roxy are parents, so you also get to see how they deal with their sexuality in a home where there is a Rugrat to consider. A very nice read! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-29
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

This is an extremely explicit blog by Orchid and Aragorn. They share stories, fantasies, and pictures. They manage to mingle a large bit of romanticism with an even larger bit of naughty. In addition to talking about their lovemaking, they also examine other erotic blogs and even interview folks at times. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-29
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is a really hot couple blog! It was initially started by "Dirty Debbie" as a place to vent her active imagination through erotic stories and discussion, but now her partner and soulmate CJ also posts to it at times. They have a really interesting story as a couple that involves a large span of time, break ups, and make ups. Debbie is a girl after my own heart who studied psychology and biology in college (since she wanted to be a Sex Therapist). She spent a lot of her life studying, raising a daughter, and finding her way. Now she is in a place where she feels comfy with herself and her relationship, and she is raising a bit of playful hell (and has the x-rated pictures to prove it). A "dirty" blog with a sweet chewy center. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-11-01
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This is a neat little site. It gives you reviews on websites, books, toys and movies, all from a couple’s perspective. Your webmasters are Cecilia and Alain. They don’t profess to be experts of any type but love to experiment and share their honest opinions with the world. The site has been up and running since February of 2006 so there are a good number of reviews to check out. The reviews themselves are fairly extensive and quite often will have his and her point of views. I would like to see the site continue to grow and become an even better resource for couples looking for great sex sites, toys and movies. This is definitely a good starting point if you want to surf with your partner.

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Minimal
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

Stiletto Diaries the Blog of Stiletto Girl and chronicles the progress of her relationship with her husband from the realm of monogamous to polyamorous. The site was initially created in November of 2005 so there’s almost a years worth of writing and information to browse through. It’s an interesting read. - Koi

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-09
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This blog is written by a married Female Dominant/ male submissive couple who have strong opinions about the ultimate superiority of women-led relationships. Here is an excerpt of their writing, "Wives have historically done this behind the scenes, but they are more openly embracing their feminine power through formal agreements in which a husband's role is to obey and submit to loving female authority. Evidence abounds that this is actually as nature intended. Those of us practicing a wife-led marriage know it provides a win/win that is far superior to a traditional relationship." Judging from the comments on their site, I'd say that they take a lot of heat for that assertion. Interestingly enough, they seem to take more heat than most of the sites I go to that practice Male-led relationships. Makes ya think, eh? - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Female Domination

This is one of the most charming blogs on dominance and submission that I've ever run across. It is written by a monogamous husband/wife team in a long term marriage. They are deeply in love with each other and exploring "Mastery and Surrender". Tea (the wife) and Naranja (the husband) are extremely articulate folks with more than a dash of Eastern style philosophy at the root of some of their interaction. An example of this is when Tea asks the question, "If you're submissive, how would you play at indirectly naming the submissive in you which cannot be named?" This sort of thought will be very familiar to you Taoists out there. Being partnered to one myself, it was very interesting to spy on another couple and see how that philosophy sometimes touches their own sexual expression. I found all of the writing here to be extremely compelling, erotic, and sometimes downright magickal. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Spanking

I was already somewhat familiar with Goose and Gander from all my reading of Monk’s Blog, so when I saw that they had submitted their site for review, I was all over it. It was a great excuse to go and read all the archives. The Blog chronicles their exploration into the wild world of kink, public play and poly. There are also a variety of entries that deal with the more mundane details of everyday life that are just as interesting. You get a feel for who Goose and Gander are, and what is important to them. There are entries from both Goose and Gander so you get different perspectives on a variety of topics that are presented in a unique and thoughtful manner. Goose and Gander are very much in love with each other and that shows throughout their many entries. - Koi » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-03-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

This BDSM resource center has a handful of erotic stories, dozens upon dozens of poems, a collection of well known essays, a discussion board, and local scene info. My favorite part of it is on polyamory, however. In addition to the standard educational links you'll find the real jewel of this site. The site owners have written a journal called "A Year in Polyamory" that chronicles the first year of their search for a third member of their family. That is a very valuable and unique window into the world of poly that you just can't get from educational essays on the topic. Much of this stuff can be found elsewhere, but the journal is very original. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-02-28
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Fiction, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S

This blog has quite the interesting story evolving within it. Apparently the blog owner (aka Artfuldodger) is a married man who is currently navigating his way toward separation and divorce while having an affair with a woman named Lady L. Lady L is also married, a former swinger, and unhappy and planning divorce. Lady L didn't know about this blog until recently, but when she found it she ended up joining him and blogging right alongside. That is really unique! They both talk about their erotic fantasies, dreams, and desires. They post sizzling fiction, heartbreaking fact, and some of the everyday stuff about parenting and such that you'll find in any blog. You don't often get a chance to hear such honest talk about affairs and unhappy marriages. I really appreciated the chance to read about that, and I figure quite a few of you out there will find it of value as well. Being a divorced woman myself, I am familiar with the train wreck of emotions leading up to it. It is also inspiring to see these two discussing sensuality so vividly and with such passion. It is a good reminder to live every day to the fullest. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-25
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, mainstream erotica

Alex and Suze are a playful UK couple that have put together an erotic blog complete with podcast files and original photography. Some of the entries read like erotic stories, while others seem to be about education. I really liked the review section, and I hope that they expand on that! They seem to really thrive on interaction with those who leave comments, so be sure to leave one when you stop in. I admit that I have a bit of a thing for UK accents, so the podcast section was very nice (although much more tame than what I was expecting). I love the sense of humor and delight that this couple practically radiates. My one complaint? It is very strange for me to see so much advertising on a blog. Mouse over some keywords and you'll get pop up text boxes, which really annoyed me. I suppose they are probably doing that to pay for their bandwidth though. Bringing this sort of content to the web can be expensive, especially if your site becomes popular. Check out the advent type calendar that they had going on during December, that was quite cute. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-13
Cost: Free Advertising Content: High - see above
Category Listings: Advice / Education, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Solo Amateurs

This is the heartbreakingly honest blog of a submissive slave named Taylor. While many online journals avoid mentioning difficult bits of truth, Taylor runs head long into them. She talks about a painful childhood of sexual abuse and parental alcoholism, as well as her current life with a Master (a married man named Rush that she met on a massively multiplayer online roleplay game). She writes often, in-depth, and introspectively. I felt very protective of her while reading her blog, as I could identify with many parts of her journey (and hoped with my whole heart that it would all turn out well). Since the initial review, Rush has been writing more and more, so this is turning into more of a coupleblog. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-04
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, D / S, Sado-masochism (S/M)

This blog is a cooperative venture between a female dominant and her male submissive. These folks are prodigious writers. If you are a blogger, you may have heard about the NaNo novel challenge. This author finished with a 50,500 word project! Most of the journal is about their sex lives. I love that they clearly mark which stories are true and which ones aren't. They are very into strap on sex, so if that is your thing don‘t miss it. - Vamp » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: alternative / sci-fi erotica, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Female Domination

This blog chronicles a long distance love affair between a man and a woman. It is extremely romantic in nature with lots of poems and rich language. There are moments of pure lust as well, many of which include a bit of role reversal and strap-on sex. You see the love affair from both sides, as the letters from HIM are right next to the letters from HER. A neat little window into the hearts and minds of others. Good for the romantic at heart!

Date Reviewed: 2005-11-16
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

What a fun blog to read. A man [40] and his wife [38], parents of five kids, and with an active kinky monogamous sex life that they love to talk about here. There are occasional photographs, and the blog is searchable by topic. I love to encourage folks like this, taking the brave step of going public with their own sexuality and taking ownership for all the wonderful variety of it. More power to em.

Date Reviewed: 2005-07-30
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

I could not stop reading and chuckling at Housewyfe Wendy's journal entries and thoughts. Wendy is an amazing writer with great comic ability. There are several snippets I would like to quote from Wendy's blog site, but not enough room to write and even better if you check it out yourself. I love a gal who can laugh at herself and circumstances and openly share with the rest of us. So what is this site about? Wendy details her sexual relationship with her husband whom she fondly refers to as "Caveman." After many years of sexual repression the two are finally getting it on and Wendy can't get enough. The beauty of this site is that Wendy also gives really excellent couple advice. Had her site been available before my seperation there may have been hope for me and the "wasband." No joke - she's good. Humor, insightful thoughts and a knack for erotic writing, makes Housewyfe & Caveman worthy of attention.

Date Reviewed: 2005-06-28
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples

This is a start up, but nicely done and it'll be fun to return in a year or so and see what they've done with it. Daniel and Sabrina are both writing their own true-life sex stories, with occasional photographs, but also are soliciting that others submit stories and photographs. There is only a limited amount of content at this point, but the site is nice and cleanly done and has potential to grow to a nice place.

Date Reviewed: 2005-05-24
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, mainstream erotica