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Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant

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Weblogs and journals written by people practicing BDSM of some kind, in the dominant role.

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Lil*j girrl and Daddy
Every once in awhile I find myself wondering how in the heck I've managed not to do a review of a site yet. I know the answer, the list of sites we've got to review is pretty huge. Still, I'm sorry that it took so long to call attention to this gem! I'm absolutely certain that I've read it before. Nawa*G is husband, Dominant, and Daddy to lil*j. They both are great lovers of the art of Shibari rope bondage, and they take lots of pictures of their work. Best of all, they share those pictures along with he said/she said style posts that really help to take the reader inside their dynamic. I love that! There are almost three years worth of posts to look over, and it is a real delight to observe their experiences over time. I highly recommend this to anyone who enjoys Shibari, dominance, and the special Daddy/girl bond. Inspiring! - Vamp

Female Bondage Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-10-08
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Female Bondage

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Lady Lubyanka
What a great blog! I often seem to read material by female submissives, but it is rare to find a genuine blog by a lifestyle dominant. So, it was with great interest that I devoured the offerings of Lady Lubyanka. She is a 41 year old musician who is bisexual, poly, Jewish, and funny as all get out. She discusses her thoughts about everything from caning to corsets, and really seems to have a knack for reviewing products. She also has a great informational section that explains prostate milking. All of her writing has a very intellectual and whimsical tone, and it is great to feel both entertained and informed. An example of a product review is her comment about a specific dildo she had purchased for her harness, "...[E]ven the most olfactorily oblivious person would be able to taste the airborne rubber fumes from this cock, just from breathing in the same room as it. The smell was more insistent and persistent than door-to-door religion pushers." Fun, informative, charming, and sexy! - Vamp

D / S Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-10-08
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, D / S, Female Domination, Sexuality Info

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Bedroom Closet
This blog is written by Simon and Ava, a couple that enjoys writing explicit stories about their sex life and fantasies. Most of the entries seem to be written by Ava, and they are definitely graphic. An example of her writing would be, "Giving my mouth a rest for a moment he stays perched above my face, lowering his balls into my mouth again as he works his cock. I feel his balls tighten in my mouth before he lifts his hips and moves just enough to shoot his cum across my mouth and neck." If you like erotica based in reality, you'll enjoy these folks! They have a lot of vanilla adventures, but there is plenty of kink stuff to keep you on your toes. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-09-24
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

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Urban Roguery
I am not sure why, but it is rare to get to read sex blogs from men that really discuss their own emotional and physical experiences in-depth. It is a shame, because I know that they have so much to say about sensuality! I was jaded when I saw this blog, expecting it to be full of some puerile commentary on porn pictures (as I've become unhappily accustomed to). Instead, I found this glorious diamond amongst the rough. Rogue seems to be a man of real flesh, blood, and feeling. As I read his entries I felt moved by his longing, desire, confusion, and a whole host of other emotions. He is a deeply sensual man who effortlessly seems to discuss sexuality in a way that is truly hot and genuine. He has a heart, but he has a lot of frank lust as well. One moment I felt taken in by his romantic side, and the next I felt forced against the wall and taken by his gritty nature. All in all, I was seduced by this blog. I think that you might find yourself equally hypnotized. Lovely, hot, and interesting! - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-09-09
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex

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The Best Sex Bloggers
You might be wondering why a relatively new site (just 3 months old) is already creating such a buzz around the internets. It might have something to do with the fact that the contributors to this group include some pretty heavy hitters of the sexblogging world. So what happens when some of the sexiest writers get together to work on a blog? You end up with an orgy of amazing content: sexy stories, hot images, spicy toy reviews - most anything your naughty little mind could want in a sex blog. And since there are multiple contributors, you are treated to a blog that can offer you multiple updates in a day - your RSS feed will be thrilled when you subscribe(and I know you will too). - Shay

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-09-09
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Humor / Satire / Silly, mainstream erotica, Sexuality Info

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The Twelve Gates.
This unique blog features the writing of a woman who considers herself a "sacred whore". She approaches sensuality from many angles, and seems to have a great fascination for fantasy and mythology. She writes, "It's easy to mistake the urge to have sex as sex, rather than engaging totally with the physical reality of sex. Expecting the urge to be enough is a common mistake and then people wonder why sex isn't as good as it is cracked up to be, or rather as good as everyone else says that it should be. In other words, the connection and technique aspects of sex are regarded as secondary, so most sex is a triumph of hope over experience!" An interesting read, with a lot of sacred sexuality and D/s as seasoning. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-08-19
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

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Ruinouslove
BDSM is really difficult to film, and most of the time SM in the adult industry actually means Stand and Model. People put on the pvc, pull out the toys, and completely miss the energy of actual power and pain relationships. This is a site that manages to deliver something authentic, and sometimes brutal. Catherine de Sade and K offer videos that are rough, gritty, crude, dangerous, and real. In their own words, "...[H]orrible things are done to this woman; physical and emotional abuse, degradation and so much more. All in the name of love." There are a handful of homemade DVDs for sale, and each one lists a run time and has a few sample clips. They also offer clips through clips4sale, and those come with full descriptions. There is a lot of anal sex, bondage, humiliation, odd insertions, large insertions, SM, punching/slapping, and such. There is even a bit of somnophilia (sex with a sleeping person). If you know a bit about BDSM, some of this stuff may make you a bit squeamish. My own safety guidelines are quite different from this couple, so I certainly was at times. (Then again, I'm quite certain that if they could watch me they'd get squeamish as well! Such is the nature of kink.) They are consenting adults who speak to this matter clearly in their blog, "Yes, it's dangerous - get over it." Fair enough! Custom videos and t-shirts are available, and the blog is very interesting to read. A curious mixture of love, lust, and violence. Delicious and frightening. They actually captured something here that is rarely found on film. - Vamp

Sado-masochism (S/M) Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Amateur / Indie Video / DVD Date Reviewed: 2008-07-31

Category Listings: Amateur / Indie Video / DVD, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Sado-masochism (S/M)

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Dominatrix Next Door
Calico is a fetish model and professional dominatrix who has been chronicling her thoughts on sex and her life in the fetish industry on this blog for a little over a year. Calico writes a great blog, her posts meet all my requirements: her writing is engaging, interesting, fun - heck, she's even grammatically correct. And did I mention that you can view her gorgeous fetish photo portfolio from her site? Calico is a rare gem of a sex blogger - if you're into her particular brand of kink (or are curious about it), you're going to want to bookmark her site. - Shay

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-05-12
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Sex Work Info

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Sugarbutch Chronicles
One of my favorite things about reading blogs is that you can peek into the lives of people you'd never otherwise get to know. As wonderful as my little Midwestern town is, it's not the greatest place to make friends with a "kinky queer butch top," which happens to be Sinclair Sexsmith's self-description. Sinclair's writings focus on sex, gender, dating, and the politics of these topics. The posts are open-minded, inclusive and informative, which is exactly what I like when I'm learning about someone whose life experiences are so different from my own. Did I mention the images Mr. Sexsmith posts? They are mighty enticing. There's an erotica contest on at the moment; check it out and vote for your favorite sexy tale. And Sinclair? If you're ever in my town, stop by for a cup of coffee. I'd like to meet you. - AAG

Blogs / Journals - Sex Date Reviewed: 2008-04-30
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - Sex

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Cute But Psycho
I couldn't resist taking a look at a blog called Cute but Psycho. The blog is written by Kara, a 24 year old woman from Ohio. She describes her blog as her personal goth/punk/freak and body mod blog and she covers such topics as female dominance, relationships, polyamory, and body modification. I read a lot of angst and drama in her posts and what seems to me to be a real search for meaning in her relationships and her path in life. In addition to her writing, she also has a flickr link to photos of herself and even a web cam. - Wolfe

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant softcore Date Reviewed: 2008-01-26
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, softcore

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The Erotic Challenge
EroticChallenge.com currently offers 60 masturbatory challenges that you can either set for yourself or ask (beg?) your favorite Dom to set for you. Eventually the site's creator, AlisonX, plans on writing 1001 challenges, which would keep even the most ardent wanker busy for a nice long time. Challenges range from the mental (think about your favorite fetish object) to the more corporeal (use ice during masturbation). Most challenges are geared toward men but can fairly easily be adapted for women. AlisonX encourages feedback from folks who try out her challenges. She also urges heavy measures of caution and common sense for those who want to play. This is probably very wise, as I tend to question the safety of some of her suggestions. Is it a good idea to leave a rubber band around your family jewels for up to 90 minutes? Would you bathe your cock in vinegar and baking soda? Should compressed air be blown upon your John Thomas? I don't have the answers to these questions, but I would use a whole steaming heap of caution in trying things of this nature. - AAG

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-12-08
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Uncategorizable

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Dominatrix Next Door
Calico is a 22 year old dominatrix and fetish model based out of New York. Her blog is primarily about dominance, submission, and masochism, particularly in relationship to her work, but she also discusses her personal life. Having worked in both industries myself, I always enjoy reading about what brought people into this particular line of work and how their personal kinks relate to what they do professionally. Her blog also includes a link to her model portfolio and a link to the dungeon she works from for those interested in booking a professional session. I rarely read a blog where I become thoroughly engrossed and lose track of time, but I did here. Calico is cute, engaging, honest, and a damned good read. Highly Recommended - I know I'll be back. - Wolfe

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-11-16
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Sex Work Info

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Confessions of an English Gentleman
Don's been writing his Confessions of and English Gentleman for a while now and it shows - his prose is fluid and well thought out. His writing draws you in, making you submit your time to reading more - by the way, his is a D/s blog. Don is a Dom who enjoys not only inflicting pain and demanding complete obedience from his female subs, he also enjoys writing about it in exquisite detail. His blog a beautiful mix of stories and discussions on various aspects of the D/s lifestyle. One thing that really struck me about Don's writing was that for nearly every time I was shocked by a punishment he described, I was also shown the tenderness and love that can/does exist in D/s relationships. As someone who has very little experience in the D/s scene, I found this site a fantastic place to learn more; and judging by the readership, it seems that both newbies like myself as well as the more experienced enjoy reading what the English Gentleman has to say. -Shay

D / S Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-11-08
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, D / S

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Devastating Yet Inconsequential
This blog chronicles the relationship of Devastating and Joscelin, a new couple just discovering their BDSM dynamic. Devastating, usually a submissive, has taken on the role of dominant in her relationship with Joscelin, a man a few years younger than her in body and experience. The blog is well written and surprisingly up front about the ups and downs of their relationship. I really enjoyed seeing the progression in communication between the two of them and how they choose to resolve conflict. - Wolfe

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-11-01
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Aunty Agony
Aunty's review request has been in our pending basket for quite a while and I apologize for the delay in reviewing her blog. She is a significant spanking fan and for the past couple of years has had a blog to promote her fetish. She puts spotlights on both top and bottom, and on all gender mixes. She has recurring features such as "Bottom of the day" or "Spanking machine" [both photographs, and periodically will highlight on-topic themes [pix of a new favorite paddle or cane, for example]. Such things as a series of birthday spanking pix, or wedding spanking pix, or the latest feature on a spanking paysite, or whatever. Mingling with the photos are essays, news articles, and other on-topic content. There is a bit of advertising here, but it is all spanking-related and folks need to pay for their blogs somehow, I suppose. As a spanking fan myself, I wish her well with this. - Peter

Spanking Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-09-05
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Spanking

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Choosing Bonds
This is a blog chronicling the long distance Master/slave relationship between Trammels and nisi. Apparently nisi comes from a background that has included some very bad relationships, and she has accepted a contract with a man that describes the situation as "...I live far away and she knows nothing of me but how to make me happy and how to avoid punishment. A complete and total Mastery, taken 100% on faith." There are pictures and discussion by both parties. It appears that her Master has been asking her to find "toys" to play with, so she is currently investigating some of her more dominant feelings. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-06-27
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Master's Space
I must admit, the blog url of "slavemustobey" really worried me. I figured I'd be going to one of those sites where I'd witness a bunch of swaggering uncaring stuff, which always puts me off. I couldn't have been further from the truth. Jack is a 50 something guy from Liverpool who is over the moon in love with his Lady B. Most of the entries are straight up fantasies that show affection, lust, and a large amount of fun. Jack shares his journey into BDSM with this lovely lady, but doesn't spend time talking about how he is Super Dom or anything like that. He just talks about what gets him hot, and that is refreshing. Be sure to check out his profile, because there is a nice little audio clip there. - Vamp

BDSM Fiction Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-03-01
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Category Listings: BDSM Fiction, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant

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S&M Blog
This blog is written by Sean and Mel, a very young UK couple exploring aspects of BDSM together. Most of the entries are made by Mel, a submissive female studying biochemistry. They have only been blogging since January, it appears. Most of the content is kink related, but life happens and other types of content is included. Mel is a big fan of breathplay, so there are some entries involving that (including some pictures of burst blood vessels in her face). One bit of cautionary information, Mel mentions that breathplay can, "...[P]ush limits of being safe; because, carried out wrongly, breath play can result in brain damage or even death." She is correct that it is dangerous, but incorrect about it only being dangerous when carried out wrongly. It is unpredictably deadly no matter how you do it, as there is no way to "do things right" and escape the potential for premature ventricular contractions (that you may experience even 48 hours after the event). These contractions cannot be detected without professional equipment, and they can easily lead to an especially nasty form of cardiac arrest (that can usually only be survived through the application of paddles by a medical professional). I say this as someone who loves breathplay, and as the author of the breathplay site. I love the stuff, but there is no safe way to do it. There are, at best, "safer" ways. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-01-05
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Abie and Me - An AB/DL Fetish Blog
This is a pretty new blog, so there are about a dozen entries at this time. It is a collaborative journal written by three phone sex operators (that are ageplay Mommies) and one male AB/DL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover). Although there isn't a lot of content, some of the entries are actually very nice essays that will be of interest to diaper lovers. I hope they will continue to add more quality content. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2006-12-28
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Category Listings: Ageplay, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Life of a Dominatrix
This is the blog of Domina Jade, a professional Asian dominatrix from Montreal. Her blog goes back about a year, and it contains a lot of talk about her sessions with people. My favorite bits, however, were little windows into her world beyond domination. She writes about everything from current events in Montreal to acne, and I really like that sort of variety. It makes the sexual stuff seem so much more interesting when you know who is behind it. - Vamp

D / S Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2006-10-25
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, D / S, Female Domination, Sado-masochism (S/M)

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