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This is an excellent swinger lifestyle site! The best way to appreciate what they have to offer is to check out their extremely accurate "Quick Tour". Basically the site offers scene and party information and reviews, instant messaging of other members, anonymous texting (exclusive to this site), photo contests, advice columns, forums, and searchable profiles of thousands of members. You can view profiles based on distance of the person from you, picture availability, current rating, age, or keywords. There is also an added bonus of the "100% Real Seal". The "Real Seal" means that the people have been verified as actual people in the lifestyle rather than just picture collectors or fakes. The customer service and basic faq information on this site are explicit and helpful. The entire service is well put together. There is a free 7 day trial membership, and an "exclusive membership" that is $24.95/ month recurring. There are lots of options about payment (monthly, 3month, yearly, nonrecurring). This is one of the best organized sites I've seen in this genre. Excellent and lots of members! If you are a heterosexual or bi-female swinger I think this is one of the best spots on the net to hook up. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-26
Cost: 7 Day Free Trial, $24.95/mo (term disc) Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Personal Ads, Regional Guide

Out of the sites I've reviewed so far only two have gotten me hot and bothered, and World Wide Wives is one of them. World Wide Wives is a personal networking site that has a huge display of user submitted photos and videos. The photos and videos vary in quality which is pretty standard for amateur submission sites, but they are fun to watch when you know that the folks in them are having fun and getting off. The personals section of the site is quite well done. Members are able to search for others based on similar interests and sexual compatibility. This site is a must see for anyone interested in viewing, and potentially meeting, beautiful wives across the world. - Wolfe » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2007-11-20
Cost: $20/month Advertising Content: medium
Category Listings: amateur compilations, Downloadable Video, Personal Ads

Dirty David is a site where singles and couples all over the world can get together for sexual encounters. The site has been in operation since 1999 and has over a million members. New users can create an account for free and will some basic access to the site. Users can search for couples, men, women, groups, as well as TV/TS individuals, in whichever country you chose. With a paid membership users can look for same sex couples and even search by breast/cock size and drinking/smoking habits. Search results turn up a listing of individuals with their screen name, age(s), thumbnail image(s), and location. You can click their name to learn more about them: how much body hair they have, if they practice safe sex, etc. But apparently if you want a close look at their pictures you have to buy a membership. One thing that I thought was kinda cool about this site was that users can not only upload the standard profile images, but video and audio clips as well. -Shay

Date Reviewed: 2007-11-14
Cost: free, $7.49 - $19.99 /mo Advertising Content: medium
Category Listings: International Sites, Personal Ads, Veteran Sites

Dogging refers to the practice of watching couples engage in sexual activities in semi-public places such as parked cars. Dogging.co.uk serves as a place for British folk keen on enjoying dogging (or any other sexy activities, in fact) to hook up with willing partners. The site allows profiles and pictures to be posted absolutely for free, with no payments ever needed to read emails or exchange contact information. Yep, it's all free. The site owner promises to remove any "fake" profiles and never to post inflated statistics. Unlike some other hookup sites, Dogging.co.uk is very plain. There are no bells and whistles. But it's *free*, and do you really need the bells and whistles? If you are looking to get naughty in the UK, give it a look. Who knows what fun you'll find. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-10-25
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

Love Voodoo is an alternative lifestyle dating site for swingers and polyamorous couples in the Unites Stated and Canada. People of all genders and sexualities are welcome here, so it is got a much broader scope than a typical lifestyle site. In addition to the personals, Love Voodoo holds monthly get togethers for it's members in the Ft Lauderdale, FL, area. They also list other lifestyle clubs, and events, across the United States. Site members can create their own blogs, contribute erotic stories, and have various other methods of networking with other site members. Their member search feature is quite good; members can search by username, gender, marital status, state, city, gender orientation, and amyriad of other details. Love Voodoo is also is working on a chat feature, which they tell me should be active very soon. The site is very well done and is easy to navigate. Great site! - Wolfe

Date Reviewed: 2007-10-11
Cost: $13.95/month recurring Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

PlayfulBent.com is a site with an interesting premise: Friendly adults can create free profiles, then "flirt" with other like-minded adults. Members can create their own blogs, large image galleries, and chat groups. The site accepts members from around the world, but at the moment there seem to be a heavy concentration of users from the Australia/New Zealand areas. One cool feature of the site is that as you interact more with another user, you'll earn a higher score with that person, so that the two of you will be able to take advantage of even more functions of the site. The site also allows members to submit dares to other members; the dares range from things like very mild private nudity to wild and crazy public high jinks. An fun alternative to the standard adult dating sites. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-10-03
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: amateur compilations, art / digital art, Personal Ads, webzines

Cottaging is a UK slang term that refers to the practice of men looking for same-sex partners in public restrooms. Currently that practice might be frowned upon, but never fear! Sites like Cottaging.co.uk are there to help. Cottaging.co.uk allows men to post bare-bones profiles stating their characteristics and what they are looking for in a partner. This is not a fancy site...but it is completely free. You can search without registering, but if you'd like to see photos that members have posted, you'll have to sign up. If you are so inclined, you can also chat and post on discussion boards. The site boasts some 11,000 members and hey, it's free. What have you got to lose? - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-09-26
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

FetishMeeting.com seems like a great idea. It's meant to be a totally free hookup site for those who want a certain amount of kink in their lives. Once you register (it's free, remember!) you can specify your favorite fetish and what type of person you are seeking. Sounds wonderful, but there's one problem. As of this writing, there are but 20 registered users. Perhaps after FetishMeeting.com has had a while to grow, it will be a marvel. At the moment though, you will be very lucky to find a parter through this site who shares your fetish--and your time zone. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-28
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

If you've never heard of Adult Friendfinder, I'd be surprised. One of the original adult dating sites, and probably one of the largest, they regularly have tens of thousands of users online at any given time. The site has expanded to include weblogs for their users - you can browse these without even registering for a free account, though they are truly a mixed bag. I found some real blogs, sometimes people creating blogs just to make a single post bitching about something. You can also browse the listings without registering, though if you want to look at a full profile you have to register for a free membership. Once you've registered free, you can see all the various pay options to get even more capabilities. One of the complaints I always hear about this particular site is the vast number of "professionals" who put up profiles. I will say that there are lots of those on any personal ad site that focuses on sex. There are things you can do to up your odds of real responses from real people, including having a photo in your profile (men, a tip here: women like photos of your FACE as well as your cock. Yes, even if you're well endowed. Honest.) Anyhow, it's a huge database of members, looking for everything from phone sex to adult chat to real-life encounters. - Jane

Date Reviewed: 2007-05-25
Cost: Free, up to $69.95 for Gold. Advertising Content: Lowish
Category Listings: Personal Ads

Bondage.com has been online for almost a decade now, starting from their origins as a labor of love produced by a couple of self-described web geeks from San Francisco. There is a good deal here that is free, starting with the highly active discussion forums and personals ads. You can post, browse, read, get email and so on all for free and it's a wonderful resource for that. If you upgrade to a paid membership (which we suggest if you use the site frequently, not unlike supporting public radio if you use it) you get a plethora of other features, like the personal ad matchmaker service, the huge photo archive (74,000+ images), video, and their library of BDSM articles and resources. All in all, a fabulous community site that we can't recommend highly enough.

Date Reviewed: 2007-05-20
Cost: Free, $19.95/mo. for all features Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, BDSM Fiction, BDSM Resources, Female Bondage, Male Bondage, Personal Ads, Sado-masochism (S/M)

Christian? Kinky? Looking for a place online where those two things go great together? This is the Christian equivalent of an early bondage.com. The entire site is free, and there are no "pay this fee and receive more options" things that you see on a lot of other sites. There is chat, instant messaging, an internal mail system, a free blog option, interest groups, a forum, classified ads section, knowledge center (full of articles that are actually pretty interesting), and a lot more. How is this site different? Well, it doesn't have any nude pictures for a start. There is also an online searchable Bible. You find a lot of people searching for marriage partners or long term relationships, and most (but not all) are Christians of some sort. The profile questions are also different. Instead of seeing things like anal sex addressed, they ask things like how often you go to church. Signing up is easy, but do be aware that you'll get emails from them. The place is also supported somewhat by an affiliation with a toy store, so there will be ads for that in the member area. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-09-16
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, D / S, Personal Ads, Spanking

This is a new adult online community where you can place a personal ad to hook up with someone or exchange information on a variety of subjects through the forums. If you are so inclined there’s a forum for you to post your own amateur pictures for others to see. You will also find some cute games to try your hand at. Being that this is a new site, there are not a lot of posts at the time of review. I look forward to seeing this site expand and become more active.

Date Reviewed: 2006-08-09
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

Here's a nicely laid out site for those of you who are transgendered, transsexual, or one who loves them. It's a sincere personals site dedicated to those involved with this lifestyle that are looking for relationships and friendships as opposed to sexual encounters. You can look at profiles without making one of your own, including looking at their pictures. Creating a profile is free and apparently you can also chat for free and use your web cam. Like many other personal sites on the internet you must have a membership to directly message another member and these costs vary. You can become a lifetime member for only $39.95, or you can try one of the various other options that range from $4.95 - $49.95. The site is quite well done, clean graphics, easy to read, and easy to use. With a specialty personals site like this, it may be difficult to get the critical mass needed to make a successful site - right now there aren't all that many listings. - Koi

Date Reviewed: 2006-08-08
Cost: See Review Advertising Content: Minimal
Category Listings: Personal Ads

This is a very simple personals site that goes about things a bit different than most. The profile system essentially lets you chose a username, check some boxes to show who you are looking for, list the country you live in (and postcode if you are in the UK), upload pics and movies, and add "tags". Tags are something that people in online journal land are very familiar with. In essence, they are keywords. So, if you were looking for a threesome you might put "3some" in your profile. People on this site search for others by clicking on tags that interest them. So, for example, if you click on "3some" you will get a whole list of people looking for that activity. If you want to list something more substantial about yourself, you can post a message. The messages are searchable, so you can look for people using certain words/phrases. You can sign up for free and do quite a bit on the site, or you can go for the unlimited access and freedom of their premium package at the cost of £18/month. They don't have you sign up with a contract, so you are free to go at any time. It looks like they are trying to serve the swinger population, but they are new and these sorts of sites take awhile to build. At the moment, you get a rather short list of what appears to be single men looking for casual sex. They have a swinger's guide on the site with terms used within that community. I found that some of those terms were very different in meaning from what I thought they'd be (coming from the land of BDSM), so be sure you check it out before you assume that you know what someone means. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-05
Cost: Free - See Above Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

It is hard to start a dating site, because you have to wait for people to show up and make proper use of it. Some sites seem to attract a lot of folks, and have high quality members. Other sites tend to remain empty or start to collect dubious profiles. This site is the latter. In the inbox I was greeted with two spam emails from other members who were trying to scam me. (You are familiar with the Nigerian Bank hustle, I imagine. We all are. Who falls for that?) Anyway, aside from that you find porn star looking women that are 19 and begging to chat with you. Here is a clue, 19 year old gorgeous blondes with great photography budgets don't beg people to chat. They just don't. These are phonesex operators, adult webmistresses, and escorts. There are some very legitimate profiles as well, you just have to weed through the crud to find them. Many of the profiles were non-English, so I had no idea what was going on with those. Members can post ads, pictures, and video introductions for free. There is also chat, online message boards, and a blog. All of these are pretty much untouched, if not literally untouched. While the site itself isn't doing anything shifty (to my knowledge), the users are. This place has to go in there and clean itself up before the good folks will feel comfy there. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2006-06-01
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Personal Ads

This is a personal ad site, primarily geared towards male submissives looking for female dominants. While there are listings for any orientation combo (switch, top, bottom of either gender, looking for either gender) most search results and browsing turned up very little for anything other than femDom/sub man. You can register free if you give up an email address for unlimited searching and browsing, and you can be contacted without becoming a member, but if you want to initiate contact you have to do a paid subscription. I suppose this would all be fine, but for most of the members being pro dominatrixes - I have no idea if all of them were, but I recognized many a name and face that I know, and I don't think they're looking here for a new non-monetary based relationship. The coding of the site is all great (you can see who's online, search easily, etc) so there is some potential if it rounds out with a lot more users. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2006-01-04
Cost: Partially free, pay for options Advertising Content: Medium
Category Listings: Personal Ads

Eroticy.com is first and foremost an online adult dating/matchmaking service. They have so much other content though, that the dating part can almost get lost in the overwhelming options you find upon entering the site. Not only do they have the regular parts of a personals site, they also give members access to the Camz network of webcam shows, photo and streaming video sections, articles, quizzes, surveys, discussion forums and more. That was all well and good, but I'm going to focus on the personals aspect. You can browse by who is online, then narrow that down by gender. You can also search for users with a far more specific criteria, like geographical distance, gender, height, weight, interests, etc. I did notice that this site is definitely geared towards people who want "discrete encounters", cyber relationships, swinging, etc. as opposed to any type of regular romantic relationship. They have a feature where you can have your profile validated by sending in current photo ID. As far as I could tell, there was no way to browse only verified profiles though. All in all, it wasn't as well-organized and detailed as some personals sites, but it is one of the bigger ones out there. There is a totally free initial trial, then you can opt for a monthly rebill or a longer-term membership without recurring billing. » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2005-12-09
Cost: $24.95/mo. recurring, other options
Category Listings: Personal Ads

You may be familiar with the infamous sex club Power Exchange in San Francisco , California. Well, this is the web gathering spot for that very same club! Although there is some basic information about how to get there and the different areas that you can enter (a mixed pansexual space, a couples & women space, and an all male space), the main thrust of the site is the personals area which is open to locals and non-locals as well. I was given a chance to evaluate the "Gold Membership", but there is a free version that just lets you take a look around and do some basic things on the site to see if you like it. With the Gold Membership you get unlimited access to all the features such as chat, forums, member pics, around 17 original photo galleries, and about 6 original video productions featuring the space. What I like about this site is that it gives people a place to meet online for quiet and less pressured interaction, and then also offers a real life safe and public place to meet up and fulfill your interests. I'm not aware of another place doing the same thing.

Date Reviewed: 2005-10-19
Cost: gold membership $7.95/month recurring Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Resources, Personal Ads

This is a great alternative lifestyles community site for South Africa (and a few other surrounding places). You can sign up for free to take a look around, but full access to all site features requires a subscription. You can create a profile, post photo albums, create a blog, write classified ads, chat online with other folks, or search profiles for specific interests. In addition to this, you'll find there are quite a few galleries of erotic photographs and artwork that are available to subscribers. It appears that the site is very pansexual, so no matter what your gender or preference you'll find a category that suits you. A neat community calendar keeps you abreast of local events as well. Well put together, sex positive, and a neat resource! Great little educational essays as well.

Date Reviewed: 2005-06-06
Cost: Free (see above) Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Personal Ads, webzines

This is a pretty straight forward alternative personals site which manages to have a real pansexual feel! If you are transgendered, you'll actually find a category that fits you perfectly (and that almost never is the case with online personals). You'll feel just as welcome here whether you are a gay male or a straight woman. Registration is easy, and the Terms of Service are clear. I must admit personal bias with this site, as I am familiar with the owners and know that they are a very trustworthy kinky couple that approach everything with honesty and passion. I'd like to see this place grow, since I know they'll take good care of registered users! Regardless of that bias, I'm glad to see a personals site embrace the full spectrum of human sexuality and make everyone feel safe.

Date Reviewed: 2004-05-21
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Personal Ads