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Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Weblogs and journals written by people practicing BDSM of some kind, in the submissive role.

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Bedroom Closet
This blog is written by Simon and Ava, a couple that enjoys writing explicit stories about their sex life and fantasies. Most of the entries seem to be written by Ava, and they are definitely graphic. An example of her writing would be, "Giving my mouth a rest for a moment he stays perched above my face, lowering his balls into my mouth again as he works his cock. I feel his balls tighten in my mouth before he lifts his hips and moves just enough to shoot his cum across my mouth and neck." If you like erotica based in reality, you'll enjoy these folks! They have a lot of vanilla adventures, but there is plenty of kink stuff to keep you on your toes. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-09-24
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Couples, Blogs / Journals - Sex

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The Best Sex Bloggers
You might be wondering why a relatively new site (just 3 months old) is already creating such a buzz around the internets. It might have something to do with the fact that the contributors to this group include some pretty heavy hitters of the sexblogging world. So what happens when some of the sexiest writers get together to work on a blog? You end up with an orgy of amazing content: sexy stories, hot images, spicy toy reviews - most anything your naughty little mind could want in a sex blog. And since there are multiple contributors, you are treated to a blog that can offer you multiple updates in a day - your RSS feed will be thrilled when you subscribe(and I know you will too). - Shay

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-09-09
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex, Humor / Satire / Silly, mainstream erotica, Sexuality Info

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Sublime Submission
This blog by Naughtybuttcute discusses her submission. It is easy to access past posts, articles, novel excerpts, reviews, and fantasies. Her relationship appears to involve a lot of domestic discipline, so there is a bunch of talk about things like spankings. One of my favorite posts was "Recipe for a Submissive" which lists things like, "You hear the buckle on his belt jingle and you get chills down your back." A very nice blog about someone who is participating in a pretty intense type of power exchange. - Vamp

D / S Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2008-09-03
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

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Whisper in a Dream-My D/s Reality
We used to get a lot more of these types of sites, and I miss them. This is one of those home grown personal websites that used to rule the web, before the blog explosion. It is written by Seeker's breath{MS}, and you can tell that she found the graphics and designed the place herself. It is full of articles she has written, resources she values, and a lot of personal opinion about D/s relationships. There are links to a myspace page and blog as well. In her mission statement she says, "Please, do not confuse BDSM with D/s. Even though D/s is a part of the three facets in BDSM it is not a fetish, it is a natural way of life." Her approach is very romantic, and she discusses ideas as diverse as the concept of a soul mate and meditation. I really love this sort of thing, even when I have a different take on some of it at times. This is when the web shines for me, when someone taps out their thoughts on a home computer and places a bit of themselves on the internet. That is what I was doing when Jane found me! A sweet little site about dominance and submission. - Vamp

D / S Advice / Education Date Reviewed: 2008-08-20
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Category Listings: Advice / Education, BDSM Resources, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, D / S

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Wife Worshipper
This blog is written by a submissive man who is married to a much younger wife. He dreams of being in a cuckold situation with her, and seems particularly keen on having her sleep with black men. He describes their current situation as a "Wife Led Marriage" and talks about their strap on play, piss play, and lots of oral sex. There are a lot of original pictures of his partner (that he describes as his Goddess, Mistress, and Wife). This is the sort of thing you will find in his blog, "Last night while She was tormenting me, She taunted me with how She might suck a man one day while i am forced to watch, forced to show Him my small penis, compare mine to his. She did this while stroking me over and over to the edge and then stopping." There are at least six months worth of entries here, and a lot of commentary on Female Domination and cuckold fetish. - Vamp

Female Domination Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2008-08-19
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Enemas / Watersports, Female Domination

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The Twelve Gates.
This unique blog features the writing of a woman who considers herself a "sacred whore". She approaches sensuality from many angles, and seems to have a great fascination for fantasy and mythology. She writes, "It's easy to mistake the urge to have sex as sex, rather than engaging totally with the physical reality of sex. Expecting the urge to be enough is a common mistake and then people wonder why sex isn't as good as it is cracked up to be, or rather as good as everyone else says that it should be. In other words, the connection and technique aspects of sex are regarded as secondary, so most sex is a triumph of hope over experience!" An interesting read, with a lot of sacred sexuality and D/s as seasoning. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2008-08-19
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

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Ruinouslove
BDSM is really difficult to film, and most of the time SM in the adult industry actually means Stand and Model. People put on the pvc, pull out the toys, and completely miss the energy of actual power and pain relationships. This is a site that manages to deliver something authentic, and sometimes brutal. Catherine de Sade and K offer videos that are rough, gritty, crude, dangerous, and real. In their own words, "...[H]orrible things are done to this woman; physical and emotional abuse, degradation and so much more. All in the name of love." There are a handful of homemade DVDs for sale, and each one lists a run time and has a few sample clips. They also offer clips through clips4sale, and those come with full descriptions. There is a lot of anal sex, bondage, humiliation, odd insertions, large insertions, SM, punching/slapping, and such. There is even a bit of somnophilia (sex with a sleeping person). If you know a bit about BDSM, some of this stuff may make you a bit squeamish. My own safety guidelines are quite different from this couple, so I certainly was at times. (Then again, I'm quite certain that if they could watch me they'd get squeamish as well! Such is the nature of kink.) They are consenting adults who speak to this matter clearly in their blog, "Yes, it's dangerous - get over it." Fair enough! Custom videos and t-shirts are available, and the blog is very interesting to read. A curious mixture of love, lust, and violence. Delicious and frightening. They actually captured something here that is rarely found on film. - Vamp

Sado-masochism (S/M) Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Amateur / Indie Video / DVD Date Reviewed: 2008-07-31

Category Listings: Amateur / Indie Video / DVD, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Sado-masochism (S/M)

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Skin Prayers
Raven is a 30-something wife, mother, and woman of deep Catholic Christian faith. She is also really kinky, and she and her husband are involved in the world of erotic discipline and BDSM. I found her writing to be absolutely charming, and it was great to see someone discussing their spirituality so openly! One of my favorite lines in this blog was, "Can someone explain why parenting doesn't come with safewords?" I am sure many of us have thought that! - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - Sex Date Reviewed: 2008-07-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex

vamppick Original & Quality
sexual-eccentricity
This blog is written by Marcello, a thirty-something pansexual male from New York. Can I just say that I adore this guy? He writes about his sexuality, which includes a submissive nature. He talks openly and honestly about his foot fetish, love of anal play, and exploration of his own fluid sexuality. One of the most wonderful things about this blog, however, is his discussion of non-sexual male intimacy and vulnerability. Here is one of my favorite things that he wrote, "My point being - as men we have a right to make sure our friends are Ok - mentally, physically and sexually...We need to get to the point in our male-male friendships where sensitivity and openness between us is not perceived as weird, but healthy." That is fabulous! All this sound and sensitive commentary, and nice naked pictures to boot. What is there to complain about? Great blog! - Vamp

D / S Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive men Date Reviewed: 2008-06-12
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Blogs / Journals - Sex, D / S, men

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My Dabble in the Middle End
Constance has been writing for nearly a year now, her blog serves as a journal for her thoughts and observations as she explores her submissive side with domestic discipline, administered by her loving top, Mr. C. Her posts are thoughtful, often delving into why she thinks she might enjoy the things that she does. Constance has also started publishing her own erotic stories recently, so keep an eye out for more from her. "My Dabble in the Middle End" is a lovely little adult blog and is well worth checking out. - Shay

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2008-03-13
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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His girl's journal of her education
Geltsgirl is a former peep show dancer turned graphic designer and now a fetish sex blogger. And she runs a tight site: not only is there a security screen where you must confirm that you are over 18 before you get to view her page, but all her posts also exist below cuts with security warnings. This is good for protecting herself from trouble with minors, but it does make her site less convenient for reading - luckily her posts are usually worth the extra effort. Plus, if you find what she's currently talking about boring, there's an efficient system of tags where you can click to find posts on topics that you might find more interesting (pain, discipline, spanking, schoolgirls, etc). She writes about whatever she feels like talking about that day; sometimes it's about her wedding plans, sometimes it's about her fantasies of being fucked roughly in the ass, her thoughts on being a slave, or it's a recount of her most recent beating session - like I said, it all depends on what's on her mind. Definitely a blog worth checking out and exploring. -Shay

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-12-08
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

Wolfepick Original & Quality
Dominatrix Next Door
Calico is a 22 year old dominatrix and fetish model based out of New York. Her blog is primarily about dominance, submission, and masochism, particularly in relationship to her work, but she also discusses her personal life. Having worked in both industries myself, I always enjoy reading about what brought people into this particular line of work and how their personal kinks relate to what they do professionally. Her blog also includes a link to her model portfolio and a link to the dungeon she works from for those interested in booking a professional session. I rarely read a blog where I become thoroughly engrossed and lose track of time, but I did here. Calico is cute, engaging, honest, and a damned good read. Highly Recommended - I know I'll be back. - Wolfe

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-11-16
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Sex Work Info

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Under The Influence
Fluence is a 30 something British woman with a fetish for being helpless. Much of her journal is devoted to her control issues around sexuality and how the loss of control, via hypnotism in particular, is extremely appealing to her. Fluence makes clear that she blends fiction and reality when she writes, so take what you read with a grain of salt. The ambiguous nature of the journal only makes you wonder where the line between fact and fiction is drawn. Her journal is an entertaining read.

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-11-05
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Devastating Yet Inconsequential
This blog chronicles the relationship of Devastating and Joscelin, a new couple just discovering their BDSM dynamic. Devastating, usually a submissive, has taken on the role of dominant in her relationship with Joscelin, a man a few years younger than her in body and experience. The blog is well written and surprisingly up front about the ups and downs of their relationship. I really enjoyed seeing the progression in communication between the two of them and how they choose to resolve conflict. - Wolfe

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-11-01
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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inside the velvet rope
Red Velvet is a sub who enjoys pain with her pleasure (particularly spanking). She's been writing this blog for just over two years; her posts are a bit sporadic these days, but she generally stays on the topic of discussing her kink, her fantasies, and her life as a sub with a loving Dom. She also slips in a few of her own erotic stories from time to time. - Shay

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-10-18
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Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Sub Nouveau
Sub Nouveau is a personal erotic blog written by a woman taking the first steps towards exploring her submissive nature. Readers will find a nice mix of well written erotic fetish stories and personal posts that give the erotic posts depth. The first post I happened to read spoke about surviving and managing depression and the potential conflict between her dating an older dominant man and exploring her submissive side with him, and what her psychiatrist might feel or say about it. I feel a lot of empathy for people who have to deal with major depression, having a partner who has and does suffer from it, and it touched me to hear that she was afraid of negative feedback from her psychiatrist about something that is obviously so healing and empowering for her. Her blog is very engaging and I couldn't stop reading about her personal experiences, fears, and triumphs. Her blog is a little ad heavy, but nothing interferes with the impact of her writing. Great blog! - Wolfe

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-10-17
Cost: free Advertising Content: high
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Aunty Agony
Aunty's review request has been in our pending basket for quite a while and I apologize for the delay in reviewing her blog. She is a significant spanking fan and for the past couple of years has had a blog to promote her fetish. She puts spotlights on both top and bottom, and on all gender mixes. She has recurring features such as "Bottom of the day" or "Spanking machine" [both photographs, and periodically will highlight on-topic themes [pix of a new favorite paddle or cane, for example]. Such things as a series of birthday spanking pix, or wedding spanking pix, or the latest feature on a spanking paysite, or whatever. Mingling with the photos are essays, news articles, and other on-topic content. There is a bit of advertising here, but it is all spanking-related and folks need to pay for their blogs somehow, I suppose. As a spanking fan myself, I wish her well with this. - Peter

Spanking Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant Date Reviewed: 2007-09-05
Cost: Free Advertising Content: As above
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Spanking

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kinkerbelle ~ masochistically delicious
Kinkerbelle has a blog that is richly illustrated with personal images and poetic words. She describes herself as, "slave to Him.. lover and one who tortures her, a polyamorously perverse, bi-furious salacious whore.. who enjoys having that ‘dirty little secret’ while i flash the vanilla world a good girl smile. But He knows better." She is associated with atlantabondage.com and seems particularly into spanking and bondage. - Vamp

Spanking Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-07-02
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive, Spanking

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Lady Neaya Master's Baby
This is a journal by a couple in a Master/slave relationship. Master (aka Daddy) and "his baby" Neaya have been married for awhile, have two kids, and play hard. There are often pictures in the journal, some of which show the impact of play on Neaya's body. The writing style is graphic and romantic. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-06-28
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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Choosing Bonds
This is a blog chronicling the long distance Master/slave relationship between Trammels and nisi. Apparently nisi comes from a background that has included some very bad relationships, and she has accepted a contract with a man that describes the situation as "...I live far away and she knows nothing of me but how to make me happy and how to avoid punishment. A complete and total Mastery, taken 100% on faith." There are pictures and discussion by both parties. It appears that her Master has been asking her to find "toys" to play with, so she is currently investigating some of her more dominant feelings. - Vamp

Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive Date Reviewed: 2007-06-27
Cost: Free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: Blogs / Journals - BDSM Dominant, Blogs / Journals - BDSM Submissive

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