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Events

May 10th - 14th - Feature Dancer - Julianna Marie, Manhatttan

May 14th - The Erotic Art of Crotch Roping, Manhattan

May 20th - Black and Blue Ball, New York

May 21st - 23rd - TESFEST 04, New York
Fetish and BDSM convention with workshops, play parties and exhibitors/vendors.

June 7th - 13th - Visiting Escort - Jennifer Steele, New York

June 13th - Long Island Pride, Huntington
Gay pride festival

June 19th - Leather Pride Night, New York

June 20th - Folsom Street East, New York

June 20th - 27th - Seventh Annual Black Pride NYC Celebration , Brooklyn
Gay Pride Festival

August 9th - 15th - Visiting Escort - Jennifer Steele, New York

October 20th - 24th - Entice 2004, Niagra Falls
Swinger convention

November 13th - 15th - Feature Dancer - Aspen Reign, Commack

October 9th - 12th - Cinekink, New York
Movies festival celebrating kinky movies by independant and underground producers.

June 19th - DSF Leather Party, New York City

June 11th - BDSM Hedonism, New York City

June 18th - Switches Rule, New York City
Panel discussion on playing in BDSM from both top and bottom.

July 2nd - Judgement Night, New York City
BDSM night at Paddles

July 9th - Knife Play, New York City
Workshop on using knives in your sex play.

July 16th - NYC: this Fri July 16th, Caning with BobH, New York City

July 23rd - Flagelation, New York City

August 6th - Art of Corporal Punishment, New York City
Workshop on spanking.

Friday, August 20th - The Crucifixion with Bad Bob, New York City
Demonstration of play crucifixion

August 27th - Reflexology and Healing, New York City

Novembre 13th - Live Appearance - Keri Windsors Heat Party, Melville

September 3rd - Shibari Rope Bondage, New York City
Workshop in tying up your lover

September 12th - DSF party at the Nutcracker, New York City
BDSM play party

September 17th - Physiology/Psychology of Pain, New York City
Workshop on BDSM

October 1st - PonyPlay, New York City
Demonstration of the fetish of using humans as ponies.

November 11th - 27th - Illuminata: Are You Curious?, New York
Photogprpahy exhibit showing the work of Barbara Nitke

October 8th - Exploring Bondage Styles, New York
Workshop on tying up your lovers.

October 30th - Fetish Halloween party, New York City

December 3rd - Discipline at its Best, New York City
A workshop on Discipline and how to use it in your relationships.

December 10th - Flaming Floggers, New York

December 31st - New Year's Fetish Party, New York
New Year's Eve celebration party and Arabian slave auction at a World Famous Dungeon.

January 7th - Canes, Caning, Cane Making, New York City
Workshop on using canes as erotic play.

January 14th - Spider Web Bondage, New York city
Learn to use your Rope as a form of seduction, how to seduce it into an extension of you. Goddess Storm will demonstrate numerous and correct forms of body harness, web encasements and will guide you on how you can totally turn spider bondage into a very hot, seductive, scrumptious scene.

January 21st - Electricity Ds Style, New York City

February 12th - The Valentine Day Massacre Fetish Party, Farmingdale

January 28th - Bondage with Veronica Bound, New York City

February 4th - Eroticism, Fear and Danger, New York City
Workshop on using knives to create fear and tension in play.

February 25th, 2005 - NYC: Claudia Varrin at Paddles, New York
Demo: "Female Dominance: Rituals and Practices" Claudia Varrin, BDSM Author and Latex Diva. 8:45-10:45pm, see site for more details.


New Reviews

quality Swingers - Clubs in New York City, New York Bi Swinger - New York City
Mini Review - This is an onpremises swing club orgainzed for bisexual people of both genders. Single men and womena are both admitted as well as couples. The website has 3-4 pages of informatin on how to join, the calendar of events and what to expect at a party. Its great to see bisexual men fnally getting accepted by small aprts of the swing commuinity.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  06/04/2004  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Swingers - Clubs

quality Female Escort - Service in , New York New York Pleasure -
Mini Review - This directory is pretty small. It lists about 40 women divided into several categories based upon price, hair color etc. For New York that's a small selection. But the layout is quite well done and it is easy to shop. Most of them have 3-5 pictures you cna view and contact information varies. No exact information on prices.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  02/13/2004  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Female Escort - Service

quality Pro Domme - Independent in Buffalo, New York Mistress Alexxa Hex - Buffalo
Mini Review - This is a really good page, with plenty of information to help you decide if Mistress Alexxa might be the right person for you. She describes herself, her philosophies and experiences, likes and dislikes all in good detail. Types of play she enjoys and will do are listed, as well as the "no ways". She's got a unique look, with blonde dreadlocks, facial piercings and makeup. Session info and contact info is good, rates are not listed as they are negotiated according to the activity/time involved.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  02/12/2004  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Pro Domme - Independent

Escort Susy - New York
Mini Review - Suzy is a gorgeous brunette, but frankly her website is terrible. There are several fullsize images, but contact is via email only and absolutely no info is offered as to rates or services. She also offers up links to snakeoil like "erection" patches and dialer services for pay-per-minute porn sites. Ugh.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  02/01/2004  Advertising Content:  Medium
Categories Female Escort - Independent

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quality Female Escort - Independent in Long Island, New York Ms Jourdan - Long Island
Mini Review - Jourdan has a great bio where she describes herself and her services. She give plenty of information on how to book an appointment and her expectations from clients. She mentions some of her limits. Jourdan has 30 pictures of herself nude or in lingerie. Her rates on online for incall and outcall. Contact is via online form.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  08/06/2003  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Female Escort - Independent

quality Female Escort - Independent in New York, New York Jenna Brant - New York
Mini Review - Jenna has about a dozen head shots showing her cleavage in casual and formal wear. She has a FAQ about booking her service and has rates online for several outcall durations starting at 2 hours. She has a bio and table of statistics. Contact is via email.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  06/23/2003  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Female Escort - Independent

quality Female Escort - Independent in Westchester, Fairfield County CT, New York Amber: Escort & Artist - Westchester, Fairfield County CT
Mini Review - Amber has a long first page where she covers almost everything you need to know. This tall long haired brunette gives you an informative bio and describes her service. She lists her rates and lets you know what to expect in the booking process. She shows a half dozen pictures of her in beachwear, and one sans bikini also. She posts a couple of reviews by recent past clients on her website. Contact is via email.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  02/17/2003  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Female Escort - Independent

quality Female Escort - Independent in Lake Placid, New York Scandinavian Beauty - Lake Placid
Mini Review - Kelly has several pages describing her services and herself. She has 4 galleries of pictures ranging from glamour shots to lingerie. Her FAQ covers a lot of common questions. Contact is via online form. She lists several cities along the East cost from Toronto to Palm Beach all of which she travels to regularly. There is no travel schedule. Her rates are clear and posted for several variations and durations.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  07/20/2001  Advertising Content:  Low

quality Veronica's - New York City
Mini Review - Veronica has a gallery of about 9 pictures showing off her petite brunette form in various lingerie. She has a biography and gives a couple of paragraphs about her service. There is a brief FAQ. Contact is via email and no rate information is available online.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  10/21/2000  Advertising Content:  low

Escort Services

quality Female Escort - Service in New York, New York New York City Adult Directory - New York
Mini Review - This directory lists about 150 escorts broken down into over 20 categories. They each have 2-4 pictures and a description. Contact information varies.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  08/22/2003  Advertising Content:  medium
Categories Female Escort - Service

quality Female Escort - Service in New York, New York Mutual Consent - New York
Mini Review - This directory lists about 40 women and about 6 men. The are sorted into several categories such as escort, massage etc. Each one has a thumbnail that links to a page with a collage of pictures in lingerie and a brief description. Contact information varies.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  12/02/2002  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Female Escort - Service

quality Female Escort - Service in , New York UtopiaGuide Escort Message Boards -
Mini Review - This is a threaded message board for discussions of escorting and massage parlors. They have reviews and requests for information on specific providers are usually answered. They cover several areas of the country but by far the highest concentration of posts is in NY and NJ.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  03/01/2002  Advertising Content:  Low

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Mini Review - This site is divided into two sections. The first section lists 3 escorts. There is a picture of each woman and a very brief description. The escorts currently listed are available for incalls or outcalls, and travel is possible with some. They take most major credit cards, and mention specials. No prices are listed for the escorts. The only contact information is a phone number. The other section of the site is devoted to massage, and it lists approximately 12 women of various ethnic backgrounds. They are available for incall massage, and their hours are listed. Their regular rates are not listed, but they do have the price for an early bird special. Contact is phone only. Services mentioned include jacuzzi, body rub, body shampoo, aroma therapy, and massage in a private suite. - Vamp
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  02/11/2002  Advertising Content:  Low

quality Female Escort - Independent in New York City, New York Cityvibe - New York - New York City
Mini Review - The Cityvibe guide to New York is sort of like an online yellow pages for escorts (independent or those with a service) that is broken down into sections like VIP service incall and outcall, pornstars, massage/body rubs, models/dancers, fetish/bdsm, Asians, and "she-males". Most of the listings seem to include a photo, short bio, and a phone number. Some listings go a bit further and offer an email address, personal website, and even short mpeg clips. I didn't see any reference to rates while I was on the site and all of the current advertisers seem to be women available for men. Many of the photos or videos have been verified or taken by the staff of Cityvibe. You can search ads by keyword, which is very nice. The navigation is pretty simple and the ads are never obnoxious. Nice site! - Vamp
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  11/23/2001  Advertising Content:  Medium

quality Eros Guide to New York Escorts & BDSM - New York
Mini Review - This site has almost 200 women listed in their often imitated format. The site is easy to navigate. Each category lists all of the the women by thumbnail. Each picture links to a page with more images descriptions and contact information. Some have rates published here and others have links to their own websites. The page has several categories including pro domination, escorts and dancers.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  07/10/2000  Advertising Content:  Low

Ny-pleasure.com - New York
Mini Review - The good news is this site lists about 40 escorts, with a main thumbnail index and each escort has a page with a bio, picture and phone contact. The bad news is you could go meet a girl and marry her before the page loads. 40, 20k thumbnails downloading at 8-10 bytes per second. Too slow for words. I checked my email, fixed 2 broken links, went in the other room and talked Jane and this site still was only 20% loaded.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  1/14/00  Advertising Content:  High

Incall Massage

quality Incall Massage in New York City, New York Ritz: The New Jersey Massage Parlor - New York City
Mini Review - The Ritz offers incall massage and body rub services. There is zero information about individual women offering services here, or the rates they charge. It is suggested that there is a rotating staff of 25. Contact info includes phone and physical address of facilities (including very good directions). Facility hours are listed, and there are many pictures of the clean and beautiful Ritz. On top of regular services they mention body shampoo, aroma therapy, and jacuzzi. The early bird special price is listed, and there is a coupon that you can receive through email for a free half massage (read the details of "free"). I would have liked more information about the staff and rates. -Vamp
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  02/11/2002  Advertising Content:  None
Categories Incall Massage

Female Dancers

quality Female Dancer - Service in New York, New York Kym Regal's Pleasure Kingdom - New York [NL 6/18/02]
Mini Review - Kym has 20 pictures of herself, most in lingerie, with a few nudes. She describes herself in her bio and has a FAQ about her services. She lists several XXX movies she has participated in. Contact is via email and telephone.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  11/26/2001  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Female Dancer - Service

Swingers(Tips on Attending a Swing Club Click Here)

quality CandleLight Associates - Rochester
Mini Review - Wow this is an incredible site. The webmasters here have developed a site where you can spend a couple of hours learning exactly what to expect at their events. What they have not done is clutter this up with a bunch of stupid web tricks flashing at you. The goal here is to impart as much information as possible. This is probably a 50-60 page site and all of it is worth reading. They have a glossary of terms, info on their events, how to join, it just goes on and on. They have personal ads also and excellent tips n responding to an ad.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  08/10/99  Advertising Content:  None

BDSM/Fetish Clubs

quality The New York Renegades - New York
Mini Review - This site opens right up with this groups schedule of events. Bar nights, dungeons and larger men only events are posted as much as six months in advance. They have pictures up of past dungeon events they have held. There is a FAQ which answers a lot of nervous questions for beginners in an honest and reassuring manner. A members only section will be added son which will include personal ads and more photos. Contact information is via email, IRC, snail mail and telephone.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  2/18/00  Advertising Content:  none §

quality TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) - New York
Mini Review - TES is the oldest BDSM organization. This site includes a FAQ, basic information, meeting location, etc. about the group meetings in New York. There is a calendar of events listing meetings, workshops, play parties etc. There is a page describing the various special interest groups of TES (M/f, F/m, Equestrian, etc.). There is information about Prometheus, the magazine that the TES organization publishes. This includes a table of contents for each current issue, plus the more recent past issues, along with a scan of the cover image. Section for board members includes a column by each of them, with personal
bdsm philosophies, etc. Lastly, there is a membership form if you want to join the RL organization (only 1/3 of the members actually live in the tri-state area), contact information, and a list of resources.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  10/12/97  Advertising Content:  Low §

Pro Dommes (Tips on Contacting a Pro Dominant Click Here)

quality Pro Domme - Service in New York City, New York Rebecca's Hidden Chamber - New York City
Mini Review - This site lists 17 Mistresses. Each one has a description, gallery of picture in fetish wear and many have links to their own websites. They all work in the sites facility in NY and the site gives you a tour of the various rooms available for play. On top of this they describe their philosophical approach to kink thoroughly and in a very refreshing manner. No rate information is available online and contact is via telephone.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  07/31/2003  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Pro Domme - Service

quality Pro Domme - Independent in New York City, New York Countess Leah - New York City
Mini Review - Leah has a bio that describes her background and approach to BDSM. She has a couple of paragraphs describing typical sessions and an animated java gallery which pages though about a dozen pictures of the red haired domina in fetishwear.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  06/23/2003  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Pro Domme - Independent

quality Pro Domme  Independent in Hudson Valley  Long Island , New York Mistress Suzanne "SxySadist" - Hudson Valley & Long Island
Mini Review - Mistress Suzanne has two basic services. She is a professional Domina who will meet and play with you. She also has a great site to entertain and enlighten you online. One way or another plan on spending some time here, there is a ton of content. The free area describes her Domina service. She has pages describing every aspect of what she will and will not do. Very explicit and illustrated with pictures of her in action with lucky victims. She has a bio and FAQ section which includes interviews she has given with other publications. If you live elsewhere you can watch her travel schedule and find out when she will be in your area. Nearly every page has a picture of her and there is a gallery of about a dozen more available. You should have everything you need to make a very good choice about meeting her. There is also a tour of her members area that has about 75 thumbnails showing all sorts of BDSM and fetish acts she has done. With descriptions of the circumstances behind them. This is real BDSM by real woman dedicated to perfecting her craft. Not a bratty escort with a whip. Inside the members area there are countless galleries showing a very talented variety of BDSM play. There are also quicktime downloadable video files you can view. The nice feature is the text she surrounds this material with. It explains the events in a very touching human way with no sensationalism. You will not be disappointed here.
Cost: $19.95/30days recurring at $14.95  Date Reviewed:  06/18/2003  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Pro Domme - Independent

quality Pro Domme - Independent in New York City, New York Submissive Ophelia - New York City
Mini Review - Ophelia has a picture of herself either in the background or foreground of most of her pages. She describes herself and the types of play she likes. She describes her service and how to make a booking at one of two incall locations. No rate information is available online. Contact is via email, telephone and online form. There are many other sections that appear to be still under construction.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  06/01/2002  Advertising Content:  Low
Categories Pro Domme - Independent

quality Pro Domme - Service in New York City, New York The Den of Iniquity Dungeon - NYC - New York City
Mini Review - This is a huge web site. There is a large roster of women who work here. headlined by Mistress Tara Indiana and Mistress Porsche Lynn. Some are all top, some switch and some bottom. You should be able to spend quite a bit of time here surfing the resources here, from pictures to mistress bios to stories. if you take your time you should be able to find exactly what you need. The site lists 15 women in NY with pictures, bios and types of play they specialize in, plus occasional special guests. There are pictures of the play space they run showing you the equipment. You can book a phone session through paypal if you are geographically challenged. They sell about a dozen videos starring women from the facility and some lucky men. No rate information online. Contact is via email, snail mail and telephone.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  05/10/2002  Advertising Content:  Low

quality Mistress Dakota - New York City
Mini Review - Dakota greets you with a picture of her petite but curvy form filling a latex dress. Each page of the site has a picture of her on it. As well as a gallery of 5-6 more images. She has a detailed FAQ and set of guidelines for customers. She also describes her sessions. Contact is via email and telephone information only line. No rate information online.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  05/13/2001  Advertising Content:  Low

quality Ms Nikki's Salon - New York
Mini Review - This Pro Domme service is led by Ms. Nikki but lists 3 other women as well. Each Domina has 2 pages of text and pictures showing her in action and describing her. They also have galleries featuring a few specialties with text describing the scenes. These include medical play, infantilism and body worship. The contact information is well written with rates and specific instructions to make an appointment. Contact methods are telephone, fax, snail mail and email.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  12/26/2000  Advertising Content:  Low

quality Mistress Mine - Queens
Mini Review - This pro domme site has a lengthy section about Mistress Nona. Several pages of text about her play style and experience with images of her playing and posing in fetish wear interspersed. This includes an extensive table of different fetishes and scenes she covers. Contact information is snail mail, email, and phone. She does phone sessions through PEP. There is a section of thumbnailed photos of her playing. She also had one illustrated femdom story. There is no rate information available.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  06/04/99  Advertising Content:  None

quality The Dungeons of Mistress Elizabeth - New York
Mini Review - There are 10 dommes with 2 pictures and a short bio. There is an extended bio and numerous pictures for the featured mistress. There are pictures of the equipment and a page of general information. There were some galleries of the women playing with male bottoms also. They also have a page about possible phone sessions. There was contact info by email, snail mail and telephone. There was no pricing information available.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  4/10/99  Advertising Content:  None

Strip Clubs

quality HunkMania Male Dance Revue - Manhattan
Mini Review - Reservations are required at this all male strip club for women. They use a webstore solution to make reservations for a party there or to order a dancer for an outcall performance. There are some pictures of men shirtless on the main page but no indication that they are actual performers. The contact information is via snail mail, telephone and online webstore form.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  2/28/00  Advertising Content:  low

Retail Stores

quality jane's pick secure shopping Toys in Babeland - New York
Mini Review- This is the real-life store that I'm most likely to shop at. Locations in Seattle, New York, and starting a couple of years back, the internet. If you are near one of the real life stores, check out the site for listings of educational events that they have in-store. The website is grand too, with tons of info on how to pick out the right toy/s, online secure ordering, and a great selection of high-end products.

Directories/Resources

NY-Exotics
Mini Review - Very well-designed, easy to navigate site that is a listing of adult services for the New York area. There are separate sections for escorts, dancers, daytime or evening, massage, men and more. A typical listing has a brief description, photo and contact phone number. A few had larger photo portfolios online. I didn't see too much in the way of pricing information on most listings.
Cost: Free  Date Reviewed:  4/8/98  Advertising Content:  N/A

General Links

Demask - New York
Julie's of NY - New York
Dominant Transsexual Diva (NY/NJ) - New York/ New Jersey
DiCarlo's Gentlemen's Club - Albany
CAKE - New York
DomSubFriends Society -
Arena Blaze - New York City
Jacqueline's Place - New York City
Suzi - New York
International Shemale - New York City
Platinum Girls - New York City
Kayla Cox (Shemale) - New York City
NYC Girls - New York City
Anil Gupta, Inkline Studio - New York
Mistress Cher - Bayside
Strip Tease to Go - New York
Centerfold Strips - New York
Couples Social Club - Schenectady
Charldine Club - Schenectady
Hung Redneck - New York
Steve Teron - New York
Jet Dancer - New York
Tiana's Lounge - Manhattan
Cosmopolitan Escorts - Manhattan
New York Bondage Club - New York
PEP Buffalo - Buffalo
Lesbian Sex Mafia - New York
Long Island Bondage Group - Long Island
The Eagle - New York
Gay Male S/M Activists - New York
Eliza's Affair - New York
Rent A Girl - New York
Candlelight Associates - Rochester
International Escorts - New York
Paris in Town - Manhattan
Without Restraint -
The Healing Art of Touch - New York
Long Island Burlesque - Mays Landing NJ
Dutchess Von Stern - Hartsdale
Tri State Poly -
Paradise Club - New York
Conversio Virium - Columbia University
Fetish Warehouse NY - New York
Excaliber - New York
Ted Bare- New York City
Escorts Network - New York