Jane's Regional Guide » Washington
sacred eros - Seattle
Mini Review - Robi and Beth are sacred intimates based in Seattle. Each of them has a separate section of the site to describe what the do. Beth's section has quite a lot of information about her history and experiences. Robi's section isn't quite so detailed, and a bit more vague as to his process for starting and continuing encounters. You might wonder how a sacred intimate is different from an escort. While I personally have not paid for either service, it's my understanding from the sacred intimates I've talked to, that their work is much more about personal sexual/sensual/love growth, healing and learning. Beth has a background in tantra, as well as other things. They both see men, women and couples, and you can also see them as a couple. Contact is via email, phone to be arranged.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 04/26/2005 Advertising Content: None
Categories Incall Massage Male Escort - Independent
Original Circles of the Northwest - Kent (Seattle)
Mini Review - This group holds two dances a month, the 2nd and 4th Saturdays, as well as a week-long campout in July. They provide food and soft-drinks at events, any alcohol is BYOB. To attend a dance you must first attend a 15 minute orientation beforehand. Couples are welcome, singles are on a case-by-case basis regardless of gender. Once you attend 6 dances, you can become a member of the group. The website has info on upcoming dance themes and the campout, as well as a single page of lifestyle (swinger) etiquette and info. Contact is via email or phone.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 04/26/2005 Advertising Content: None
Categories Swingers - Clubs
Ashley Devyne - Seattle
Mini Review - Ashley starts off with a bio that describes herself and some of her services. She has almost 50 pictures of herself in lingerie in her galleries showing off this blond beauty's voluptuous curves.She has a very informative FAQ which answers a lot of common questions very well. Her rates are posted for incall and outcall appointments and she has quotes for regional travel fees also.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 07/07/2004 Advertising Content: Low
Categories Female Escort - Independent
Brooke of Seattle - Seattle
Mini Review - This site for Brooke, an independent escort, is actually fairly sparse in terms of information. You will see several photos in sexy attire of the green-eyed blonde, and there is basic rate info and good contact info. What there isn't is any link to reviews on the major escort sites, or any info on screening, incall, outcall, etc.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 11/30/2004 Advertising Content: Low
Passionate Encounter - Bellevue
Mini Review - Pamela has a gallery of a dozen nude photos of herself showing off her buxom figure and fresh smile. She has a bio about herself and a FAQ about her service and its logistics. She links to about 10 reviews reprinted from TBD by satisfied customers. Her rates are online and contact is via email and online form.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 06/07/2001 Advertising Content: Low
Seattle's Ryann - Seattle, Bellevue
Mini Review - Ryann has about a half dozen pictures of herself on her site. She also has a one page information page that includes stats on herself, booking information and a brief description of her service. Contact is via email. There is no rate information online.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 07/07/2000 Advertising Content: None
Your Party Girls - Seattle, San Francisco
Mini Review - This dancer service lists 11 women in Seattle and 8 in San Francisco. They each have a bio and gallery of about 6-12 pictures in lingerie or nude. The rates are clearly explained with several options. They also do a very good job of explicitly describing what to expect from their show and how to manage the event so your guests get the most out of it.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 12/21/2001 Advertising Content: Low
Washington's Hippie Stripper - Seattle, Tacoma, Olympia, Vancouver
Mini Review - Wow, this is quite the website. If your eyes can get past the glaring red background complete with tiny little penis graphic pattern, I applaud you, mine could barely take it. The Hippie Stripper offers us his services for stripping entertainment of all kinds. He's actually quite entertaining just to read, when after the standards like "bachelorette parties", he offers "having a problem with a peeping Tom? Hire the Hippie Stripper to surprise them as your naked houseguest!" There is a page with several black and white full nude photos (he's the Hippie Stripper because of the hair down to his butt) along with a terms of service page about what he will and won't do. I'll fill you in: he's not a prostitute, he won't dance or strip solely for homosexual men, he won't strip at a function where the management hasn't approved, etc. There were no rates provided, contact info is email only.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 02/01/2004 Advertising Content: None
Categories Male Dancer - Independent
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Mistress Matisse of Seattle - Seattle
Mini Review - This is an incredible Pro Domme web page. She covers every bit of information you need, to get started fulfilling your fantasy. The really cool thing is she insists on being your equal until you are actually in a scene. There isn't a presumption you should submit just because she owns latex pants. (BTW Jane and I have seen her at leather parties in those pants and she looks awesome in them.) There is an extensive FAQ, which covers so much you should feel like you are really ready to work out a scene when you call her. After reading it you get the sense that she is a real human being, not just a mannequin with high heels that calls you names. There is email and telephone contact info. All in all this site is a perfect example of how to run a professional pro domme business. Read every page, and you will learn something here.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 05/06/99 Advertising Content: Low
Lady Lydia - Seattle
Mini Review - Lydia is a beauty who oftne is seen modeling for various fetish publications in print and on the web. She is well known and respected in the Kink community. She has a very thorough site. It really does a great job of covering all the basses with picture illustration to go along with much of the text. She describes every aspect of her services from the types of play she does to the range of possibilities such as in person sessions to distance training. She has numerous testimonials posted from review sites. Her rates are included in her protocol page which lets you know exactly how to contact her and includes a great section on negotiation. Everything is here to insure you have your fantasies met.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 02/09/2005 Advertising Content: Low
Categories Pro Domme - Independent
Mistress Katja - Seattle
Mini Review - Nicely done website, with all the pertinent information. The intro has a brief and polite overview, with a link to Mistress Katja's etiquette page so you'll get an idea of how to make contact the first time. She succinctly lays out her limits and scene preferences, has a couple of very nice galleries of photos of herself, and lists rates and very general booking info. Her dungeon space isn't fully described in terms of which specific equipment she has, it is just generally described.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 11/30/2004 Advertising Content: None
Categories Pro Domme - Independent
Lady Catherine La Croix - Seattle, Bellingham, Vancouver, BC
Mini Review - Ms. La Croix has been a sexual educator and activist for far more years than this website has even existed. This page is devoted to information on her professional dominatrix services. Warning: this is very text intensive and you actually do have to pay attention and read through in order to navigate the site effectively, so if that's going to be an issue this probably isn't the site (or the dominatrix) for you. That said, all the pertinent info is there: rates, an extensive list of the equipment at her facilities, how to go about initiating a session, a downloadable and lengthy questionnaire to fill out prior to booking, and so on. There is an ambitious plan for further sections of the site that aren't yet finished, in terms of discussion boards, personals and so on, but all the info that really matters in terms of her services is complete.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 08/24/2004 Advertising Content: None
Mistress Milliscent - Seattle
Mini Review - This site shows an extensive view of her philosophy. There are several pages of text, 2 interviews reprinted here and an archived list server discussion of BDSM. You can also join this list server. She also has several pictures of herself. No rate information is available online, but email is encouraged.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 06/09/99 Advertising Content: Low
Mistress Damiana's DeViante'
Mini Review - Mistress Damiana is a well known and experienced player and professional dominatrix in the Pacific Northwest. This site is a well done introduction to her professional services. Communication, limits, expectations, and fees are quite clearly stated. There are photos of some of her dungeon equipment and facilities as well as her at play, and her wishlists for gifts shows exquisite taste. - Peter
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 04/10/2004 Advertising Content: Low
Mistress Klaudia - Seattle
Mini Review - Klaudia has 9 pictures of herself in fetish wear on her site. This busty blonde domain also has other shots scattered through out her generous pages describing her services. She describes several options for her services including incall and outcall appointments. Rates for every option are included in the descriptions. She is very clear on how to contact her and book a session. She also describes options for your sessions in detail. Contact is via email and telephone.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 01/01/1904 Advertising Content: Low
Categories Pro Domme - Independent
HUGS! - Spokane
Mini Review - This site gives you all the basics on the first page. They include prices, logistics to join and a brief description of the club. The calendar shows all of their events for months in advance. There are also specific pages describing larger swing events they sponsor. The club also posts personal pages of their members. Contact is via email, snailmail and telephone.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 3/16/00 Advertising Content: None
The Gypsy Arms - Seattle
Mini Review - This site gives you a tour in pictures and words of the rooms and other facilities at this kink friendly Bed & Breakfast. Complete with pictures of their dungeon. The reservations page has rates and all other important information to secure your stay. The site also has a bunch of kink and non kink resources and information that may help you plan your visit. Contact information is via email, snailmail and telephone and includes a map and directions. I have stayed here before and the rates area good deal just for the excellent room and breakfast, the well equipped play space is truly a bonus.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 4/15/00 Advertising Content: Low §
Mini Review - This is a large, very inclusive "sex positive community center" located in Seattle. The website explains the how membership works, how to attend an orientation and so on. You can also browse the extensive listings of parties, workshops, educational events and social groups that are held there. Sex parties and BDSM/Fetish parties are held weekly, there are also events of just about every other description that are held less regularly. Every gender and orientation is welcome here, and it shows. Wetspot is also home to one of the largest lending libraries of sex-related material in the Northwest, a service run for the community. This is a group run primarily by volunteers, with a membership in the thousands now.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 01/29/2004 Advertising Content: None
Seattle Men in Leather - Seattle
Mini Review - This leather fraternity in Seattle has a page that describes its many activities, including contests, fund raisers, monthly brunches and educational programs. There are pictures from some of their recent events, a history of officers, award winners and contest winners in their Seattle Leather Daddy and Boy event. They list the charities that benefit from their fundraising efforts. Rules, bylaws and membership forms are all available at the website.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 12/01/2001 Advertising Content: None §
TriCities BDSM - TriCities
Mini Review - This BDSM organization posts their schedule of events here. The calendar includes workshops and munches. The munch locations and times are online. The other events are dates only. Either join their list server or attend a munch for more information.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 09/20/99 Advertising Content: medium §
The Divine Enchantress - Tacoma
Mini Review - This store specializes in sexy clothing and lingerie for larger women. They have a retail outlet and also an online store. You can shop on the web and/or go to the shop and try on your choices. They have great directions to the store including a guide to using the light rail to get there. There is good contact information via snail mail, telephone and email. The store has return policies online and web store with about 15 categories of clothing.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 08/25/2004 Advertising Content: Low
Categories Retail Stores
Toys in Babeland - New York
Mini Review- This is the real-life store that I'm most likely to shop at. Locations in Seattle, New York, and starting a couple of years back, the internet. If you are near one of the real life stores, check out the site for listings of educational events that they have in-store. The website is grand too, with tons of info on how to pick out the right toy/s, online secure ordering, and a great selection of high-end products.
One Wilde Knight - Seattle
Mini Review - Two words encompass what you'll encounter on this site - quality and class. O'Rion Xcalibur, well-known and respected elder in the Seattle leather community, has applied skills developed over 20 years to producing exquisite custom corsets and tailoring. They do custom leather and studwork, period costumes, and handmade steel-boned corsets, all in materials both traditional and materials unexpected. They specialize in 16th, 17th, 18th, 19th, and early 20th century style corsets, for men and women both. The website is small and new, and plans to add much more. Displayed currently are about ten pictures of a wide diversity of items, primarily shots from a fashion show in the spring of '99. Everything done is custom, prices and materials and schedule and everything else to be negotiated between you and the artist, and they provide a simple form to initiate contact. I recently had occasion to watch the artists from this site as they did fittings, and every item I saw was as I mentioned at the start of this review - quality and class.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 12/12/99 Advertising Content: None
video extreme - Bellingham
Mini Review - These folks are doing a great job on this online store. They have original reviews of the videos and sex toys they sell. You get an honest evaluation of the product, not the canned blurb from the factory. The toys are all shown in photographs taken by them, not the box cover that can often be misleading. They had customer service contact by toll free phone and email.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 12/17/2002 Advertising Content: Low
Categories Retail Stores
Sacred Exploration - Seattle
Mini Review - This site is about healing your sexuality, not just serving up a delivered fantasy like a pizza. Dr. Betty Martin, produces workshops, seminars and individual sessions focussing on experiential exploration of sex and sexuality with an intention of improving our lives and specifically our sex lives. She explains the processes involved and the amazing variety of forms it may take on, from groups workshop series to one on one sessions. her rates are clear, and she has great contact info via online form, email, snail mail and telephone. If what you're looking for is growth this is the place to start.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 09/15/2004 Advertising Content: Low
Legal marriage Alliance of Washington -
Mini Review - This website has a dual mission. It outlines all of the resources, laws etc effecting same sex marriage, domestic partnerships, benefits etc. It also heads up the campaign to change those laws in Washington State. It does a great job of doing both. Their FAQ will give you great answers for the debate with relatives over the Holidays. So at a minimum go there read some and go out and open someone elses mind.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 11/21/2001 Advertising Content: None §
Sexuality.org - Sexuality Resources - Seattle
Mini Review - From the makers of Sexuality.org, this site is a very good resource page for sex positive groups, events and meetings in the Seattle area. There is also a very well maintained calendar of events. If you are looking for something special this is a great place to start.
Cost: Free Date Reviewed: 04/15/99 Advertising Content: None §
BDSM Seattle - This List is for those living in the greater Seattle/Pacific Northwest Area who live a D/s - BDSM, TPE Alternative Lifestyle. A list for meeting others... to share your interest, ideas, an experiences...For of Posting Personal Ads, Community Activities, Events, workshops, Public Play Sites, etc. This List is not moderated and a free forum for posting of Ideas, interest and experiences... but it is restricted the posting of D/s - BDSM related subject matter only.
BDSM PNW - This list is a provided as a social arena for those people in the D/s, M/s, lifestyle in the Pacific Northwest, California and Canada. It is meant to be a place of discussion and learning and to meet and greet people in the same locality. Personal ads may be presented to the list occasionally but responses must be taken privately to the ad poster. All events and announcements related to events, parties and other social events related to the subject are also welcome. The list is moderated by three open minded people, Brandy, Panther and Labyrinth, and unless open flames are noticed, we will just be subscribers like yourselves. Come on in and visit awhile. Ê
Femme Dom Society NW - This email list is a forum for Female dominants and the submissives (male, female, cd, tv etc) that adore and serve them. Personal ads are welcome. Feel free to express your opinion on any subject matter pertaining to Female dominance. We are open to all genders, fetishes and sexual orientations. Discussions may include anything from living arrangements and household settings to community, social, lifestyle, finding mates, etc. as well as erotic discussions on training and playing.
Triskeli Guild - The Triskeli Guild is an inclusive BDSM education group promoting an alternative lifestyle community. We encourage participation by all genders, races, and sexual preferences. We advocate safe, sane, consensual play AND safe sex. We have all levels of experience from the curious to the very knowledged. We meet to socialize, educate, welcome new folk, make announcements, conduct club business, and answer questions. We meet on the 2nd Tuesday of the month from 8 till 10 pm at The Fairhaven Pavilion. See web page for directions!
This section on the laws of Washington is provided with this caveat. There is no warranty that it is complete. It is not legal advice and I am not a lawyer. I am only trying to help people find resources that might help them. If you think you need legal advice consult an attorney in this jurisdiction. This section is a work in progress and laws do change. Web version of legal codes are not always updated as regularly as they should be. Be sure to check these laws at their original source before relying upon any information. If you have any information to add please write to Jim.
The following are laws in the state of Washington that we feel restrict the act of sex. These are victimless acts that are criminalized by someone trying to legislate their own morality. Some of these laws are rarely applied but as long as they are on the books they can be used to persecute people. If you live in Washington ask your state legislators to change these laws. Another thing you can do to help erase some of these laws is to make a donation to the Washington State Sexual Civil Rights Initiative. Or better yet help gather signatures, or volunteer in some other way.
It is a class C felony "...for profit-making purposes and with knowledge, sells, exhibits, displays, or produces any lewd matter..."
It is a misdemeanor if a "...person engages or agrees or offers to engage in sexual conduct with another person in return for a fee."
It is a class C felony if a person "...profits from prostitution; or advances prostitution."
It is a misdemeanor if a person "...fails without lawful excuse to make reasonable effort to halt or abate such use"
Patronizing a prostitute:
It is a misdemeanor if a person "...pays a fee to another person as compensation for such person or a third person having engaged in sexual conduct with him or her" and/or "...solicits or requests another person to engage in sexual conduct with him or her in return for a fee".
Patronizing a prostitute twice:
"Upon an arrest for a suspected violation of patronizing a prostitute...may impound the person's vehicle if...has previously been convicted of patronizing a prostitute..."
New Horizons Swing Club - Lynnwood
Aubrie - Seattle
David - Seattle
Argo - Seattle
Cindy - Seattle
The Vogue - Seattle
True Spectrum Tantra - Seattle
Girl4Girl - Seattle
Club Seattle - Seattle
Seattle Impressions - Seattle
Miss Jenna - Seattle
Kiva Diva - Seattle
Emerald City's Brittany - Seattle
Erotic Healer - Seattle
Class Act Tattoo - Puyallup
Dusk til Dawn - Seattle
The Fitting Room - Seattle
The Cuff Complex - Seattle
Seattle Gay News - Seattle
No Safeword Writers Group - Seattle
Ingersoll Gender Center - Seattle
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Lovers Package - Seattle and surrounding areas
X-Otic Tan - Seattle
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Live Wires - Seattle
Slave to the Needle - Seattle
The Stranger - Seattle
Strip-A-Gram - Seattle
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Seattle Topless - Seattle, Tacoma, Everett
Roxanne's Adult Entertainment Service - Seattle