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AB, Adult Babies

a fetish for regression into an infant/toddler state through dress (including diapers), roleplaying, and being rendered helpless to a Mommy/Nanny; the formal title for this fetish is “paraphilic infantilsm”; it can manifest itself in many ways but revolves around the ideas of giving up control to Mommy, wearing diapers and other baby clothes, playing with other ABs, being stripped of responsibility, and sometimes, exhibitionism; ABs need a Mommy/Nanny to help take care of them, to feed them, clothe them, change their diapers and check for diaper rash, play with them, and to discipline them when necessary


sensation play that can range from playful to painful that uses rough, textured objects such as steel wool, sandpaper, and pumice stones to stroke, massage, or graze the skin


term for anal intercourse (either homosexual, heterosexual, or strap-on play) where the recipient is on his/her back with knees drawn up to their chest and touching their shoulders


slang for a bisexual

AC/DC dildo

a dildo with a head on each end, one large and one smaller


another word for orgasm


arousal from heights


a medical condition where a male has too many erections that are often painful and embarrassing




a marriage in which brothers share their wives amongst each other


a fetish for dressing as an adolescent


a span of time after an intense BDSM session during which the submissive partner is tended to by his/her Dominant; can include resting, rehydration/feeding, cleaning wounds, putting salve on chafes (from handcuffs/bondage), drawing a bath, psychological repair, or perhaps, just providing a safe quiet space for the submissive to collect his/her thoughts


slang for a tiny penis

age of majority

the age when one is legally considered an adult by the governing laws of their current location and/or residence

age play

any roleplay/fantasy that involves a change in age; the most common is one or more adults pretending to be a teenager or child but can also include aging fantasies.

algolagnia, algophilia

psychological and sexual arousal from the infliction of pain

alternative lifestyle

a general term that refers to sexual preferences and practices outside the accepted societal norm of monogamous, heterosexual partnerships


a term for female ejaculation that has its roots in tantric sex practices

anal balloon pump

an inflatable toy for the asshole that can be pumped up to stretch once inserted, often used in personal masturbation and also by Mistresses training their sluts to be good asswhores

anal beads, anal balls, anal pearls

several names for a string of beads/balls that are inserted into the anus, one by one, and tugged at varying strengths and speeds to cause pleasurable sensations, especially during orgasm


kissing, licking, or penetrating an asshole with the tongue

androgyny, androgynous

a representation (usually through dress, speech, and demeanor) that is a balanced mix of both female and male identity

angel, john

slang for a man who hires a prostitute for sex

angry dragon

slang for when sperm shoots out of one’s nose after giving a blow job

animal play, animalism

roleplaying that one (or more) person(s) are an animal during a fantasy; common manifestations of this fantasy include ponies and dogs; the play can include grooming, training, feeding, collaring/bridling, and, in the case of horses, riding

ankle cuffs

bondage mechanisms specifically designed for the ankles, often made of leather; they can also be made of metal, wood, or fabric and can either be used as symbols, in conjunction with loose chains or a spreader bar, or to bind someone in place to a fixed object/wall


a male who has no testicles, either from birth or as the result of castration




any food, drink, drug, or other stimulus taken internally that causes sexual arousal


a bondage garmet that looks like one long sleeve; both arms are trapped inside and bound even more tightly using laces, straps, and buttons; arms are often bound behind the back and the binder is often used along with other restraints to prevent getting free

around the world

licking or kissing the entire body before commencing with a further sex act; in Dominant-submissive situations, there may be no further sex act beyond oral worship


sexual arousal achieved by being choked/strangled/suffocated to the point of passing out

asymmetric bondage

the act of restraint that is uneven and asymmetrical, causing the bound person to be disoriented and off balance; this type of bondage can cause intense psychological reactions.


nope, not an automated teller machine in the adult world, rather it’s “ass to mouth”, a reference to an adult performer going from anal sex to oral sex without – uh – cleaning up in between. Highly unsafe sexual practice, and apparently high eroticized by some people because of it. While we list sites that include that content, it’s important to realize that is extremely risky behavior for STDs.


slang for an older homosexual who is no longer considered to be a hot commodity among the beauty-conscious gay community


the ability to perform (or the act of performing) oral sex on one’s own vagina

autoerotic asphyxia

self-strangulation or suffocation to bring on sexual excitement


another term for masturbation


the ability to perform (and the act of performing) oral sex on one’s own penis


a fetish for crossdressing


the rare act of (& ability to!) a man inserting his own penis into his asshole


torturing oneself through pain for sexual gratification and release