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when it rains, it pours

This weekend, everything culminated at once. I had not one, but TWO of my closest friends show up from hours away. One with no notice whatsoever, one was planned these past two weeks. And two other friends that I see all the time both had impromptu parties.
Thursday evening, Natasha called. She and her husband [...]

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more on marriage

Now I’m all feeling like I want to expand on yesterday. If you’ve been reading me for a long time, you’ll know that my journal (blog, now) used to be much more dominated by talk about relationships. I was in a poly marriage, and it worked for a time. But it worked in a way [...]

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books and rain and colds, part deux

Well, it’s a good thing I didn’t actually make it on the jury I was called for yesterday because my cold has turned into a full-blown one. Sore throat, fuzzy head, etc. The sucky thing is that it’s noisy here at home – today they’re putting the (brain fuzzy, blanking on this word… um… trusses! [...]

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colds and rain and books

Blah. I’m not having the best day today. I started getting a cold last night (hopefully a minor one) just in time for the weather to turn bad. And to top it off, we woke up this morning to about 3 gallons of water all over the floor of our living room, because the addition [...]

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it’s all about romance, baby.

I was just watching a great video clip of Violet Blue talking about her experience appearing on the Tyra Banks show. I love Violet Blue, she’s definitely one of the best voices when it comes to talking about the vast spectrum of sexuality. I am a little surprised that – well, that it surprised her [...]

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things I’m looking forward to:

Max’s weekend bondage intensive. It’s only 2 weeks away now. I’m really looking forward to going, after the past summer being fully immersed in non-sexy things, it’ll be nice to get away. I found it interesting that Elliott’s Real Astrology horoscope (yup, I married a Gemini) had this to say:
“I feel worst when I’m not [...]

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some days you just don’t want to get out of bed.

This morning I woke up to the following things: one of our cats, rushing in the door with a mouse clutched in his little jaws. I could hear bone crunching. A mess the dog made, the origins of which were now unrecognizable. Garbage strewn across the driveway, thanks to another dog that had gotten in [...]

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off to a slow start

It’s a busy weekend today, but happily nothing we HAVE to do. Generally every single weekend is booked months in advance in our schedule, either with family, travel or boating commitments. And that’s before the holiday season starts. However, today is construction zone as the framing is starting, and we actually have nothing on the [...]

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it’s official…

we’re horse people. My youngest daughter is the proud new owner of a 10 year old quarter horse mare. With all of the work and money that goes along with it. Eep!
We were at the point where it had to be done, because the horse she’d been riding (a friend’s) had gotten too old and [...]

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sexual stuntpeople

I slept horribly last night, mostly because I am getting too old to have a margarita with dinner without repercussions. Something about tequila, even in small doses, hurts me. Practically every time I woke up it was in the midst of a sex dream, thanks to starting to review Kink.com’s Sex and Submission website yesterday. [...]

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