First, a note from yesterday: Natasha totally loved the gift I picked out, and I remain the queen of gift-giving. yay!

Now on to other things: I am attempting to re-categorize and update the review index. I do not want to make it too extensive, because the longer the list, sometimes the more difficult it is to find what you want. However, I do want to keep it as sex-positive and gender-positive as possible, while still making it easy for people to figure out the categories. This is important, and falls into the “not everyone lives in the love bubble” area. Terminology that might be totally normal to me, may not be so well known to the very broad audience that comes here. So, with advice from the wonderful Courtney Trouble, and of course AAG, I am in the midst of the work in progress, shown below, and am eliciting comments/suggestions. Email or comment away, any and all help is appreciated.

Mainstream:
Amateur (Solo girl)
Amateur (Multiple people)
Indie
Hardcore
Softcore
Fine Art Nude
Glamour/Beauty
Vintage/Pin-up
Porn Star
Celebrity
Asian
Latina
Black
Interracial
BBW
Mature
Men
Public Sex / Flashing
Sextoy / Machine
Natural Breasts (silicone-free zone)
Blowjob
Gangbang
FTM (Female to Male)
MTF / Shemale
Gay Male
Queer
Girl/Girl
Lesbian/Dyke

BDSM:
Bondage: Women
Bondage: Men
BDSM – M/f
BDSM – F/m
BDSM – F/f
BDSM – M/m
Spanking
BDSM Art
Community Sites

Fetish:
Foot Fetish
Panties/Stockings/Garters
Voyeur / Upskirt
Forced Feminization/ Sissy
Latex/PVC/Rubber
Enemas/Watersports
Goth/Vamp
Pregnant/Lactating
Bodybuilder
Pony Play
Fighting / Wrestling
Ageplay (Adult Babies)
Balloons
WAM (Wet & Messy)
Hirsute
Tickling
Girls with Glasses
Other Assorted Fetishes?

Adult Services:
Online Dating
Swinger Community Sites
BDSM Community Sites
Phone Sex
BDSM/Fetish Phonesex
Podcasts / Internet Radio

Adult Products:
Sextoys / Safer Sex Supplies
Lingerie
Corsets
Fetishwear
Plus Size Positive
Shoes
Books/Magazines
eBooks
Podcasts
DVDs
Custom Videos
Worn Panties
BDSM Gear
Audio / Aural-erotica
Cross-dressing apparel?

The Written Word:
Sex Columnists
Advice/Education
Polyamory Info
BDSM Info
GLBT Info
Adult Blogs – Personal
Adult Blogs – Product Review
Adult Blogs – Photos
Erotic Fiction
Alt/Sci-fi Erotic Fiction
BDSM Erotic Fiction
Humor/Satire

Sex Industry:
Website Design Services
Website Hosting
Sex Work Info / Advice
Sex Educators
Adult Casting
Adult Industry Awards
Adult Affiliate Programs

Highlights:
Porn Produced by Women
Award Winning Websites
Staff Favorites

what say you, dearest readers and contributors and site owners?